How old were you in these relationahips? How long did you stay in the relationship? Why did you break up? Who's fault was it?
I'd like to know these things so I don't make these mistakes. :)
2006-09-29 17:25:46 · 7 answers · asked by thrashthemic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every person is different, but I think that it's true that people who give more in the relationship lose more. its s simple equation, if you give more, the other takes more, and because they have more, when they give back they don't lose much, whilst you need to fill the space back in.
I got involved with someone completely wrong for me, and i didn't realize it until too late. He was an @$$ from the beginning but i spent a year and a half wasting my time trying to make it work, all the meanwhile making my hear tmore and more vulnerable until now im a mess and guess what? no guy.
Just be careful who you open up to and make sure u get to know them. When you do and it starts to get serious (don't make ti serious so fast) make sure you can live with everything about that person (i mean not everything, if they pick their nose in public and it bothers you , but you can live with it so be it lol), but if its something major like a drug problem or womanizing .cheating problem, move on if you can't live with it.
2006-09-29 17:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by coochie1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this girl. I don't talk that much. Its a skill I need to build so that I can better connect with this girl. I cop looks at her all the time. She is really nice and beautiful to me. Sometimes I think how I wish I could read someone else's mind. Then I think, no that wouldn't be fair because I wouldn't ever want someone else knowing whats on my mind. But then I think back to this girl or a smiliar situation in which I would do anything to confirm a mutual bond or feeling between us. See that is my problem. I want some extraordernary event to occur that will CONFIRM a bond. I don't have the confidence to push her (read: ask how she feels about me). I am the guy so the BURDEN is on me to push her into telling me everything. I wish that she would give me a sign saying that she wants me to push her. I have only known her for a few weeks or days though. But she is the one I am after right now. I will try to work her more.
There is something about her that I like.
2006-09-29 19:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by mixmelodically 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take back the last 10 years. I learned that just because he may say he loves that it doesn't mean he loves you. One regret is not marrying a guy that was so perfect about 4 years ago. I left him and it was the biggest mistake of my life.
2006-09-29 17:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to make your own mistakes ... you really can't learn from my mistakes .. because you'd of done things differently ... the best advice i can give you is be yourself always and if something doesn't feel right go with what you feel and not what others want or expect of you.
2006-09-29 17:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believing a man when he says he loves you... Marrying to soon ... Staying with someone who hit u around.. but mostly trusting men...
2006-09-29 17:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My biggest regrets were falling in love to begin with, being faithful, and caring.
2006-09-29 17:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kissed my friend's cousin in 4th grade.... YUCK EH?
2006-09-29 17:39:43 · answer #7 · answered by Rammer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋