It's starting to feel like you're all players and selfish....
:-(
I would hate to really find that it's true...
ugh.... frustrating...
2006-09-29 17:08:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys have to be. See, once a dude realizes he should change, he doesn't meet any girls. And once a girl finds a good guy, she realizes she's bored, and goes back to the players.
It's not human nature, just clouded thinking.
2006-09-29 17:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're being too demanding of them up front right away.
My experience has been that some women expect a committed relationship after one or two dates. Well, this isn't high school, and there's nothing wrong with dating a few women briefly to see who's the best match. Perhaps before you do anything physical you should bring up the fact that you want a commitment first. And if he accepts those terms, then he is definitely a player if he still dates other women. But just wanting to date other women does not make him a player. You say the men you date are selfish? How old are they? I think most single, unmarried men are juvenile and selfish through their 20s. Of course, I say that as a 35 y.o. divorced father......
2006-09-30 00:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by Jay S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the real Question iz are there really any good people out there! People nowadays (most) have no morals anymore and society breeds rude,hurtfull,and hatefull people. I have been clear across the USA and I have been through many cities,towns,etc.. I have seen so many relationships and so many people unhappy (very few happy),so when you do find a person that has the right laoyalty that you desire and deserve, dont ever let them go, that is a mistake i will pay for the rest of my life. (letting Her go) Best of Luck to You
2006-09-30 00:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by Electric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone out there for everyone. Just concern yourself with being a good women and you will attract that good man. If you hang around selfish players, the good men will stay away. So hang out with good people and be a good person and good men will be knocking down your door to meet you.
2006-09-30 00:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by otblikethee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are out there but women don't want them. So why ask? there are probably a ton right in front of your face but they aren't super hot or mister bad boy. maybe you can't find the cause you refuse to look for them!!
2006-09-30 00:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope you find you a good man. I'm in love with a woman who loves me too and I'm a good man and she is a good woman. It has not always been that way for either of us so we are very happy.
2006-09-30 00:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I'd like to think I'm a decent guy, butI have come to realize that nice guys finish last. Get back to me if you are old enough SBinder3111@yahoo.com
2006-09-30 00:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by sbinder3111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I got the last "good" man. He is my sunshine, he makes me laugh, I feel perfectly content when I'm with him. (yes, not all men are a'holes like my soon-2-be ex husband of 24 years...)
2006-09-30 00:14:15 · answer #8 · answered by Kelly K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. There's only Feminists and A$$holes.
2006-09-30 00:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, we ARE all selfish, and we are ALL players. HAHA, i'm kidding. Look harder. seriously. Dont give up hope.
2006-09-30 00:19:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋