I'VE GOT MANY JOYS IN MY LIFE BUT FEW PAINS THAT I'VE EXPERIENCE & THEY KEEP ON HOUNDING ME IN my dreams WHY?????
2006-09-29 16:53:14 · 14 answers · asked by JOHANN L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
MIND OVER MATTER, OUR MINDS ARE VERY POWERFUL YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CONTROL AND TO CHANGE THE DIRECTION OF YOUR DREAMS.
TRY IT , IT WILL HAPPEN
TWO: THOSE PAINS ARE STILL; THERE;.
YOU HAVE NOT FOUND PEACE OR UND:STANDING OR FORGIVENESS YET.
YOU NEED TO. DEAL WITH PAIN TO HEAL PAIN.
DOING THIS HELPS US GROW AND STRONGER.
2006-09-29 17:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably have a negative outlook on life and consequently dwell on it more than you dwell on the positive things. Try not to remember or even think about the negative things and focus on the positive things. Write down the joys that have happened in your life and put them up all over your room to remind you that not all things in life are negative. Finally, wear a rubber band around your wrist so whenever you think of a negative thing you could snap the band as a cue to change your thought to a positive one.
2006-09-30 00:11:01 · answer #2 · answered by yellowscissors 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pain is easier to remember. Your body doesn't remember what water feels like on the skin, but will never forget what ice feels like stuck to your flesh. Joy comes and goes easily and doesn't leave a thing, but PAIN will stay forever and leave scars.
2006-09-29 23:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it is harder to remember the joys because the pain can be crushing. try not to dwell on the bad times. good luck!
2006-09-29 23:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by truth seeker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're lag of Endorphins(Brain Chemical that reduce pain and affect mood positively) therefore, go Exercise lol no joking...
2006-09-30 00:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by Hermes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People tend to remember the bad times more vividly because they had a stronger feeling about it. I'm sorry and I know how you feel.
2006-09-30 00:24:00 · answer #6 · answered by WickedWest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dreams are letting you know that you have not worked those these experiences of pain yet emotionally once you do you will have sweeter dreams!
2006-09-29 23:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how traumatic are those pains? maybe they stay around because you havent let them go. dont let a few bad things control your life, it will surely get you depressed and thats no way to live
2006-09-29 23:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by psychologistnovelist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like you are always looking down on yourself intead of looking at all the good you are looking at the bad. if you forgive yourself for all the bad it will help you realize all the good.
2006-09-30 00:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called life. we always remember the bad because of how bad it made us feel. you are not the only one.
2006-09-30 00:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋