i broke up w/ my boyfriend over summer because it seemed like he didn't care about me. he sent me these really mean emails and now we are back together and those emails keep on running throw my head. i want to for get about them but it gets harder and hearder next time.
2006-09-29 16:34:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have you told him how you feel about those letters?
2006-09-29 16:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by ♥™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts when people we love do things to hurt us but if you really want to be in a relationship for the long term then you should leave the past in the past. I knw that sounds real textbook but it is the truth. I am sure he knows how bad it made you feel and is really sorry. But if you keep bringing it up, especially after you agreed to be with him again he may feel as if you are not really committed to him & afraid that he may hurt you again. Which you may be but give him the benefit of the doubt...Good Luck...
2006-09-29 16:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by Teapot23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that you will be strong and move on and forget about all the bad things in your life, especially those you experience with your ex. And not only that, if he is mean to you, just forget everything about him.
Don't waste your time in something that is the past. Look into the future. It is where your hope lies.
I understand that it is not easy to forget bad things said about us, especially if they were from a beloved. You jsut have to be strong. It is time you grow a little more.
All the best!
2006-09-29 16:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is treating you well, put those emails out of your mind. He was probably hurt that you broke up with him and said
things out of anger and hurt. You must believe within that he did not mean them, because you are back with him.
2006-09-29 16:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by RY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you took him back then no need to get mad at him for those emails. He only sent them to get you mad for breaking up with him. If you bring them up now it will only cause drama and you probably don't want that.
2006-09-29 16:40:25 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,the reason thats happenin is cuz ur mind nd heart want 2 4get but u decided 2 get bak wit him....ur heart's tryin 2 tell u 2 break up wit him 4 good nd dont worry bout thoses emails he may send....they just make him feel betta bout the breakup.
HoPe I hElPeD
2006-09-29 16:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by detroit_lady313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will not forget about them but if you really love this person you will get over them and they will have to be one of the things that you put to the side try talking to him get it out in the open well that is all i can really say so good luck and hope that you get what you need out of this to help you get over the e-mails
2006-09-29 16:38:49 · answer #7 · answered by tawni T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hurt you that bad you shouldnt be with him- you're better then that.....someone who really cares about you doesnt send you mean emails and stuff just becaus eyou broke up with them...they're hard to forget because they obviously really bothered you --and he was a jerk to do that. im sorry, but if he hurt you once.....he will do it again....so you shouldnt be with him.
2006-09-29 16:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by Ellen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD LET IT GO, YOU AND HE GOT BACK TOGETHER, SO LEAVE IT IN THE PAST. BUT IF IT REALLY BOTHER YOU
THEN YOU NEED TO LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT
THE EMAIL. THEN LET THE PAST STAY IN THE PAST.
2006-09-29 17:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to move forward.forget all about it or you will never be happy!
2006-09-29 16:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by answergurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋