he dosent come home to see me if i wanna see him i have to come to him and he dosent tell me what is going on i have to call him i really do love him but i am getting stressed so i dont know what to do
2006-09-29 16:25:27 · 7 answers · asked by tawni T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he is trying to slowly pull out of the relationship. Two cases happened to two acquintances of mine. The one who wants to end a relationship would tend to have that kind of a plan. So that it won't hurt too much, or, they find it hard to voice out those painful words. So... you can say that they are selfish bec they try their best to turn or create a situation wherein the other party would by force, have to voice out the problem and perhaps create an argument and they will use the chance to break it off.
My advice to you is to observe very carefully and think carefully about the changes the occurs recently.
You are the one who has the first hand experience with him and should know the answers/reasons better than anyone else.
2006-09-29 16:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes at the bored stage of the relationship. time to make it exciting like when you first met. read tips on dating and relationships to better help you on this site
2006-09-29 16:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he's trying to drift apart ... he stopped putting effort into your relationship and wants you to be the bad one and break up with him ... (i've had this happen to me ... and it sucks) ... your best bet may be to confront him or just stop doing all the work and see if he comes back ... good luck
2006-09-29 16:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if it was ment to be then it would be going a lot better towards marriagei would just cut your loses and just better luck next time
2006-09-29 18:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by luis_11211 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this relationship worth going furhter? if you think it is, talk to him and if he has a problem he should tell you. if not... well i'll leave that to you
2006-09-29 16:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by nomee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It look's like he's not in to it anymore,the best thing for you to do is move on.......ok
2006-09-29 16:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by William E A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it be, and whatever happens, happens... It will just be
2006-09-29 16:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋