a guy in my class started texting me that he likes me a lot and even described my dress, i was surprised he told me i was his inspiration and that he wants to walk me home after school, but the problem is i never experienced having any boyfriends yet, im already 19 and he freaked me out. he was saying all those nice things to me and i am not ready for those things, i got really scared because he became a sort of stalker, so i dropped my subject and will take it next semester, just so he would not see me, for the record i dont like him at all, i just feel so bad that i looked at his physical appearance and judged him for that, and now i feel as though i would also be rejected by the man that i like because i was too mean with this man, i feel like i would be punished for rejecting him because i dont like the way he looks and the way he talks to me,is it right that i feel that others wont like me because i hated this suitor?
2006-09-29 16:06:13 · 5 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel that you are threatened by someone, then it is certainly not good. Trust your instincts on that!
If he just wants you for your body, then you need to pass him over anyways. Likewise if you are after this other guy becuase of his body, you need to slow down an rethink it. You should fall in love with his heart before you ever go on a date.
2006-09-29 16:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO sweety!! You won't be punished for this. You'll find many others that don't like your looks. There's NO Law that says we have to be with others we don't like.
Hope if he was scarrying you, it has stopped. If he doesn't stop, call the police.
2006-09-29 23:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me..Appearance in a man means alot....It's not as easy as they say it should be just to be attracted to the man inside..you have to have attraction. don't be too hard on yourself..atleast you didn't lead the guy on...
2006-09-29 23:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH HOW YOU FEEL, BUT
AS YOU KNOW WHAT YOU DO AND SAY MAY COME BACK
TO YOU WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT. THAT WHY YOU
REALLY SHOULD NOT JUDGE PEOPLE, IF YOU DID NOT
LIKE THIS YOUNG MAN, YOU SHOULD HAVE BEE HONEST
WIITH HIM. BUT NOW YOU MAY KNOW NOW HE MAY BE
FEELING EVEN IF YOU DID NOT SAY A WORD. ACTIONS
SPEAK LOUDER THEN WORDS. SO BE CAREFUL HOW
YOU TREAT PEOPLE.
2006-09-29 23:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I think you're afraid of heights. Or yourself.
2006-09-29 23:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋