My bf who's been away for business trip, just called me at 3am there in London and he was a little drunk and said that he missed me. he said he was tired, so I said to him "good night". Now I’m getting ready to go over my co-worker's house for a little party. well, the fact that he was drunk kinda bothering me. I don't know. what do you think?
2006-09-29 15:55:54 · 24 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's not an alcoholic.
2006-09-29 16:13:19 · update #1
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As for your boyfriend... sheesh, I dunno. I'd be bothered too... he's there on business... how much fun should he really be having over there. Drunked out... at 3 AM... that suggests a long, interesting night... when he should be here for you.
2006-09-29 17:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
So he was drunk. Big deal.
Now if you heard strippers in the background, then you've got a reason to be upset.
Think about it. He's in a foreign country, and he's probably lonely. He goes out for a drink or two, and can't stop thinking about you. So he calls you to tell you he misses you, and you're reading way more into the situation than you should.
Does he give you reason to doubt his fidelity?
Would you be happier if he hadn't called at all?
Should he be upset that you're going to a co workers house for a party?
(Probably one of them orgies. Oh wait, am I reading too much into an innocent party?)
Give him the benefit of the doubt. When he gets back, calmly remind him of the phone call. DO NOT INTERROGATE HIM!! Let him know that you were concerned that he sounded a little drunk, and leave it at that.
Has he never been drunk before? Have you ever been drunk before? Does he start groping every woman in sight when he's drunk?
Don't pick a fight over suspicions. If he's a cheating dog, his colors will show eventually. That is when you kick him to the curb.
Don't find him guilty before he's committed any crime.
2006-09-29 23:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by RepoMan18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry. He's a boy. Boys get drunk. The only matter of it is: Is he responsible when he's drunk? It doesn't sounds like he's wasted too often, so I wouldn't be worried. It's nothing for YOU to be worried about. He's a big boy, and if he makes mistakes, HE is entitled to deal with them. However, his mistakes affect you- so be careful. This just sounds like he's out being a guy and having a good old time out on business. Call in and check on him though- just to see how things are doing. People do do some crazy things when they're drunk though.. especially if they're around other women so I would tell him to be careful and watch his boundaries!
2006-09-29 23:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand. If it is out of character for him, it may just be an isolated incident. But if you are anxious about it, you might talk to him a bit about it when he comes home. Some guys can get a little tight occasionally. But alcohol is a home wrecker, so keep your eyes open as well as your mind.
2006-09-29 22:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just go and have a good time. dont let him getting drunk get the best o f you. after all ,you have a life to live to.
2006-09-29 23:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe an opportunity to cheat came around but backed out and out of an epiphany realized that he really does love and miss you. Its not very probable but it is possible.
2006-09-29 23:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't never know , if you don't talk about it with him. Comunication is the key in your situation, wait to meet him and find out why was he drunk and who he was with.
2006-09-29 23:02:19 · answer #7 · answered by flowermieses@verizon.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is old enough to go on a business trip. He is old enough to take care of himself.
You can't b.e responsible for him. Go to your party and enjoy
2006-09-29 23:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Worry, Just letting of Steam.
2006-09-29 23:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell are you worried about? Can't he have a drink!!! He was thinking of you, so be more happy and a little less over analyitical
2006-09-29 23:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by mattallica123 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋