Hi well i kinda like this girl which i noe scince i started Elementary school and know i am in Middle School but i dont want to tell her bc i think she will stop being my friend and all.............. shes told me stuff i am not to tell anyone and ................ she trusts me .......... and so do i .............. but how do i tell her i love her without her getting all................ mad and sad or you know grossed out...............???????
2006-09-29 15:54:07 · 16 answers · asked by Aaron 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok i like her... not love................... but shes verry pretty and nice...........
2006-09-29 15:59:13 · update #1
i see them all it sounds so simple but when it actually comes it burns me inside like if i was being torchered
2006-09-29 16:05:36 · update #2
I dont really think she has a crush on me because she told my friend she had a crush on my BROTHER!!!!!
2006-09-29 16:07:47 · update #3
say, "i want us always to b friends first. but i have to b honest w/ u. i really like u. but i don't want it to ruin our friendship, so if u want to we can forget this converstaion ever happpened. but if u feel the same way i do, then mayb we could go out sometime"
2006-09-29 15:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might like you too, so just give it a shot. IF she was a true friend she wouldn't get mad at you just for liking her. Since you guys are in middle school she will most likely love the idea of someone being madly into her. I doubt she'd be grossed out. If she doesn't feel the same way she'll say it straight out since you've known each other basically forever and all. So just give it a shot, for sure you won;t lose your friendship over it. Because that would simply be the dumbest reason to stop being friends with somebody. Since shes told you things she doesn't tell anyone else proves she trusts you and that's a good thing. Great relationships always start out as strangers, who grow into best friends and BAM! a relationship is formed. Good luck to you and that girl.
2006-09-29 22:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by Liliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i personally think that you should tell her. I have liked this guy for nearly three years, and i havent said a word to him. Everytime i see him, it hurts more because i dont knoe what can happen between us. Do not be afraid to let her know how u feel, if u think that you're in love, then by all means...talk to her one day and say something along the lines of..ive known u for a long time... and i think ive developed feelings for u...i understand if u dont feel the same way but i had to let u knoe. no matter what u say...pplz dont let it hurt our relationship.. Trust me, i think it is better to let a person know how u feel rather than waist ur time thinking about what he or she could have said. IF its a NO, move on, if its a YES, enjoy. But if u dont knoe, its what'll keep u down most of the time.
2006-09-29 23:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by riley715 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know if she trusts you with all these things, she porbably does have at least some feelings for you. suggest like being bf and gf and just see what happens. maybe you two will hit it off, or maybe then you'll just want to stay friends (i know its hard on you for me to say this, but it does happen and a lot of relationships at this age won't last forever). but then by that time, you might find someone else, you know all these hormones and everything lol but if you do plan on asking her out or anything, better sooner than later, and DO NOT try and cover up the fact that you like her, you might just get heartbroken that way. call her yours first xp
2006-09-29 23:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by wintermag52 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a chance. let me tell you something when i was your age i liked this girl and she was always kind to me. so what did i do nothing so i found out later that she was so nice to me because she had a crush on me. take a chance my friend and stand out. the worst thing that she can happen is that she will say i didn't' think of you like that but she will go away knowing that she feeling good because she was wanted by a guy. that is what all girls want. then you could still go on from their and still make her feel nice and good about herself and she may eventually have good feelings for you.
have fun and take a chance
2006-09-29 23:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by The Lonely Fatman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make her feel about u
But not by teeling her directly
whenever u r togather say a few words abt what u feel
and suddenly change the topic
Try to behave abnormally to her like
if u sit with her in class room
now sit behind her
2006-09-29 23:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by Rohit_curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aaron, your situation is common. First, I understand how hard it is to come forward with your true feelings to a Close friend! I've been in your circumstance. If she really likes you as a FRIEND, then you have nothing to lose. either:
1. she secretly likes you back, and is just waiting for you to ask her out!
or
2. she only likes you as a friend, and will politely say no. you two will remain friends.
you have nothing to lose. your friendship should not be at risk unless she is a bad friend.
good luck, Aaron! We are praying for you
2006-09-29 22:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what kind of girl she is if shes creative write a note with pics on it since u said she trusts u than u should go right up and ask she might say yes or she might say no
2006-09-29 23:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you love her, if you love her that much you can tell her. And she will totally love that you were brave enough to tell her, so tell her before she slips away from you. The time is now, so go ahead and tell her. Good Luck!!!
2006-09-29 22:58:46 · answer #9 · answered by Hot Alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young for love. A crush is a crush. If you & she are old enough to go out, ask her out.
2006-09-29 22:56:28 · answer #10 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋