Whenever I walk people push me and they dont say sorry. they also cut me off and i hate it. Also whenever i try to open my locker they push me and dont say anything. what should i do?
2006-09-29 15:50:24 · 21 answers · asked by Sandman 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
Act like you don't care, push back a little, not with force but they will know you are not invisible... I had this done to me in HS just went o my HS 10 year reunin and the mean people were asking em for my number, the jocks and princesses got fat, I was now the swan!
2006-09-29 15:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell you what, in H.S. there are alot of inconsiderate "kids" but there are also good people who are kind. If you can avoid circumstances where you might get pushed do so, no need to ask for more of what you dislike. Maybe if you think of it this way you can get a laugh out of the whole thing. It is almost like between classes everyone is going to their next class like a large herd. When I think about it that way, there is some humor in the whole "scene." And, they are mostly thinking about themselves and could care less about others (sadly, that is the mentality of some high schoolers). Try to see the larger picture and try not to take it personally. Remember, you aren't the only one this happens to.
2006-09-29 23:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by Goldenrain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
High School is tough...but it is 4 years out of the rest of your life...look at it like that. Make it through by studying hard being active in what ever it is you enjoy...be it a club at school or else where. Then move on. If you take everything seriously and too personally you will remain miserable and never be able to get through. By putting your energy into another activity, it will take your mind away from the negativity of high school. Then you can move on to college and start fresh. Good Luck!!!!
2006-09-29 23:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by di4chat2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a tactic to see if you can be bullied or if you can stand up for yourself. Kids can be really mean. They never change. Stand up for yourself. The next time someone does this, say "Excuse me! Watch where you're going!" If they say something mean back then be ready to talk back. If a guy tried to fight you let him try to punch you first but be ready to be able to block the punch or get out of the way so you don't get hit(practice your reflex). In that way, if the teachers come to break the fight, tell them he tried to hit you first and you're just defending yourself. They can't say anything after that. Also, try doing some kind of sports like boxing, martial arts or something. It boost your self esteem and people will notice and stop ******* with you. Plus, you'll be physically strong and in shape but it gives you discipline. Remember too that people who are normally bullies grows up being the loser and you end up being successfull. Cheer up!
2006-09-29 23:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Thot77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take martial arts, music, tennis, fencing, chess!
Look people straight into the eve when talking. Walk with your head up shoulders back.
Don't look for kindness, there isn't any on this earth! And it gets worse after your schooling is finished!
Don't believe me? Who much of the world is at war? How many people are the world letting die from the lack of a piece of bread?
Try RAPE, Murder, robbery, theft cheat, child neglect, under-age-sex slavery in our country!
2006-09-29 22:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i hate my school but just start bumping into them.. don't let them run over you. Show them your not a pushover and they'll leave you alone. When i walk throught the halls I just zig-zag around to my destination. You will of course get bumped and cut off, in this case just bump back and walk behind the cut-off until you can walk swiftly around them.
2006-09-29 22:54:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...I'm sorry to say I know nothing of this. My high school is amazing! Everyone is really kind and nice to me, very helpful, high school is a blast! My advice is to find a group of friends that you have common interests with, and stick together. No one picks on you when you're in a group. Also, stand up for yourself! If you don't, they'll just keep going at it! C'mon, you gotta love high school!
2006-09-29 22:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a brutal place at times, but it can be the best place too. Sometimes people do that to get a rise out of you and see how you will react. Once you get settled in and get involved in in sports, intermurals, or some extra activitys you will meet more people and things will get better.
2006-09-29 22:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by Bubs Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People always do that in the hall because they are in a hurry. Just ignore it and move on... it sucks but it's part of high school. lol.
Don't get angry or push back... maybe say "excuse me" or slighly indicate that you are there, but don't make a big scene because it's not the end of the world.
2006-09-29 22:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pity that there are so many scum bags in life. I hated bullies when I was in High School and fortunately I was able to kick butt. I bullied the bullies when I caught them hassling someone.
I got respect from students and teachers. I also became a cop.
2006-09-29 22:54:31 · answer #10 · answered by Eldude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋