What would stop you from going to the person you wanted to be with.
say you are in love with her or him and she or him was in love with you what would stop you.
cause you parents said not to go?
cause you friends said not to do it?
your values?
if ther person was married?
what would be the determing factor for you?
would you care what anyone said?
what if you knew you may hit rock bottom up there financially
what if you knew she was being abused and no one did anything cause no one wanted to deal with it.
what would you do
how brave are you
2006-09-29 15:47:09 · 10 answers · asked by concrete water 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the only things that stop me are flies. I hate it when their stuff draws flies.
2006-09-29 15:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now that's a good question!
There's a combination of the above that would stop me from going after the guy.
First off, if the guy is married, that's it, I won't have anything to do with him. Another thing would be certain values that I have that cannot be compromised at all and if he insists on not respecting those values, there's no way I could stand to be with him.
2006-09-29 22:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by longtime_northern_gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I knew hitting rock bottom financially-Cause I've been there. And if was married-Cause I've been there too.
Deal w/ the getting abused.
How brave am I ? I would deal w/ that cause noone should get abused.
2006-09-29 22:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by pomsquad2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have absolutely no courage whatsoever to pursue the one i love
but if he loves me too the way i do
nothing could stop me
probably just my fear of commitment, my fear, my insecurities about who i am
my fear of becoming an irresponsible parent
and of course if the person was married
i dont want to share the one i love with any body else and neither would i want to be taking someboby else
i would not care what anyone would say,
even though we are not rich, as long as we both would like to make it through it does not matter.
if he or she was being abused i would do everything i could to take her or him out of that situation
im not brave enough
but i would definitely do the right thing when it is called for
2006-09-29 22:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess it depends. I mean, first off I have more respect for myself than that so if that person were married then yeah I wouldn't go out with them. If I "love" someone, I have to make sure they love me back. To me that would mean to respecet me for who I am as do I need to respect who they are, have good communication with each other, basically someone who I can trust wiht my life. My grandparents are my role-models because they have been to gether for almost 40yrs now. I don't care how gay it might sound to people, but that's the kind of relationship I want as well, to be happy with the one I love.
2006-09-29 22:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by Rebel6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing in the World would be able to stop me, I'm mexican and my husband is black and we're extremly lucky that NONE of our relatives on either side disagree cuz both our families are well mixed but we have always got alot of mouth from strangers cuz of it especially 12 yrs ago when we first got married. We just laugh at there patheticness and it only makes us appreciate our love more. no one could ever stop me from being with my hubby he's my SOUL MATE
2006-09-29 22:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Shortie♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's the right person nothing should ever stop you! Me and my fiance have been through troubled times his parents didn't like me well his family and he's had friends say to dump me over such stupid stuff and we are happier now then ever before and nothing could stop that. Good Luck!!!
2006-09-29 22:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by xxxlostsocalgirlxxx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I wanted someone who was not availiable, so that's a good reason. If I was a minor and my parents didn't think it was good, well they want the best for you and they are probably right!
2006-09-29 22:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did and we have been married 33 years and everyone has learned to accept it.
2006-09-29 22:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fear, that has been what stopped me before.
2006-09-29 22:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by fatiima 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋