My girlfriend and I have lived together for 2 years and she just broke up with me, she said she was tired of me not showing her love (so we did not leave on bad terms) in other words I did not cheat or anything like that. When she left I went nuts and cried and acted depressed and told her I would do anything to have her back. I have sent her flowers and told her I love her and I kept going by her workplace pleading with her, it has now got to the point where she is tired of being stalked and bothered. YES, I have learned the hard way that it only has pushed her further away and now I feel like I have no chance with her ever again. Now she wont answer my calls and basically told me to leave her alone and to move on with my life. I realize I need to give her space and do not bother her anymore. But I could sit and forget about it for now and hope that she calls me someday, but she is basically done with me. I do not want to just give up because I love her so much. How do I get her?
2006-09-29 15:35:32 · 9 answers · asked by stephen 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your first mistake was treating her like a piece of meat. Living with someone is the best way to end the relationship.
Living together is just another way of saying that you want a sexual relationship, not an intellectual or emotional one.
Start over, don't live together. Ask her out on a first date. Don't have sex. Learn to love her, not her breast. You'll go much farther that way.
2006-09-29 15:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by Charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a common problem. Just go on the assumption it is over. The more desperate that you act, the further away you will drive her. If she was with you for two years, she may return to you. But this is much less likely to happen if you continue to behave as you have been. She knows you want her back, so the next move is hers. This situation will improve over time, either way you will be OK.
2006-09-29 15:56:29 · answer #2 · answered by breezetucson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do at this point is wait, but it looks as though she has moved on. sometimes if you give her space, one of two things can happen. 1- She is finished with you. 2- She will call you and say lets try again, and she may say that we have to stop doing such and such, etc. So just move on with your life, start to go out and relax, and have some fun, because this must have been very stressful for you. Or one last effort, is send her a card expressing your feelings, and say if I do not hear from you, then I know that you have moved on.
2006-09-29 15:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone, move on, find someone else but do work on the fact (if it is true) that you don't express love to your significant other...thats a important part of being in a relationship, we all need to know by word and action that we are loved and appreciated, and we should do the same for our special someone...
2006-09-29 15:38:55 · answer #4 · answered by kewtber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pass word through her friends that you really love her.
2006-09-29 15:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by shlomogon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to find someone else. If you two were together for two years, and she left you........ then she has given up.
2006-09-29 15:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by Coodles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't man......u have to step up, be a man and let go. Its hard but thats life
2006-09-29 15:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by mattallica123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't,It's over,accept it and move on
2006-09-29 15:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy her a porsche!
2006-09-29 15:43:09 · answer #9 · answered by 6th Finger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋