Why do women call me a pig when I say I don't trust women. I am deathly afraid of women because I just can't bring myself to trust one. I don't trust anyone getting close to me emotionally. It's not like I'm refusing to date just ugly girls and only dating pretty ones. I don't date anyone. I refuse all dates. How does that make me a shallow pig?
2006-09-29 15:35:11 · 21 answers · asked by 571234 6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you're a pig because you don't trust women. But I think that for your own well-being that you need to stop putting all women in the same category. It sounds like you've been hurt badly by someone but don't let that person dictate the rest of your life. Everyone is different.
2006-09-29 15:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by sleep2dream65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not shallow. So, you don't trust girls so easily. People have to work to earn ur trust? Hey, if that's the case, you know what I say... good for you. I mean, why are you going to let just anybody get into your persinal life right? Now, I think you shouldn't be so scared of women. You should find the right person, someone who makes you feel comfortable to share your life and trust with. You do have to give people a chance though cuz if not, you wont find anybody.
2006-09-29 15:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by Rebel6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey it does not make you a pig. I have a saying that runs pretty close to true. If it is a truck driver male and breathing it is lying. Of course I grew up around them and I know a lot of them because I worked with to. but they all laugh and we go on I do not hate men men are great I just know a lot of them. I just do not want a relationship with a truck driver.
2006-09-29 15:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it makes you shallow.. Your just tired of getting hurt..It is hard to find someone sincere out there no matter if pretty or ugly. I think you just need a time out, and in time the right women will just show up without you even realizing it... Hang in there...:)
2006-09-29 15:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by whisper29me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not a pig! Your entitled to your own feelings without reservation. It's ok if you choose not to date. Don't let someone who don't even know you try to change your mind if that's what you really want. Just remember that not all woman are not trustworthy. There are still good ones out there.
2006-09-29 17:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by Fuel632 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be how you say it, or how you come across when you're saying it. You don't sound like a pig in this email, but maybe you don't usually share the full depth of your reasoning when you're expressing the reasons you don't trust women.
2006-09-29 15:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd guess that they don't fully understand. Unfortuantely, there are many men who say "I don't trust women" becasue they -are- chauvinist pigs. It is a very subtle and easy to miss distinction between them and you, and they are by far the majority. You have my sympathy.
2006-09-29 15:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by juicy_wishun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... :-| That's odd. Women usually call pervs pigs. Perhaps it's how you say it to them. Are you calling women names when you say that? I think it sounds like a "defense mechanism" on their parts... Are you being rude to them?
I don't know any women who call men pigs when they're just off-handedly saying they don't trust women.
2006-09-29 15:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt...it makes them shallow because they are judging you just by that....some girls are just really sensitive about those sort of things. so just ignore everyones comments and know that you arent a shallow pig
2006-09-29 15:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by Ellen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just means that you are scared of getting hurt or played so you have put up a shield. Nobody promised you a rose garden sometimes you have to put yourself out there.
2006-09-29 15:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋