Among my siblings, I have 2 brothers, 33 and 36 who are still not married. They are very picky and stupid about their selections....which is what I think. So they are still not married. On top of that I have a sister who is 40 yrs old and is still not married. She is also picky and just plain stubborn. Now, Im 22 and am dying to leave and get married. I feel like there is a barrier thats stopping us from getting married. Any one have any thoughts, suggestions, opinions....anything????
2006-09-29 15:26:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Okay deary... I am a phychic and i will try to read your future by your avatar.... okay... I'm seeing a white dress, lace, a heart... a man with dark hair and olive skin will enter your life. He will come up to you and use a pickup line, by which you will be instanly charmed by. It will be like you he has put you under at spell, and you like that.I see a shattered heart, yes...his parents have divorced....he feels ashamed to tell you because he if afraid of what will happen. I see long hair and a very handsome smile on his face. he want to get it cut short.
I see a new house, maybe yours and his, maybe his mother's or father's. I see a child running towards you, shouting MOMMY! YOUR HOME! and I see a beautiful blonde girl, maybe your babysitter. You pay her and go to the bedroom.
I see nothing more.
2006-09-29 15:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 30, never married, by choice. I haven't found the right guy yet. There's nothing wrong with waiting to get married. With the divorce rate these days, i don't blame them. It's scarier and more expensive than ever to get married. Don't blame them for you still not being unwed though. You are your own person and can do whatever makes you happy. I'm elated if you can find the right guy that gives you butterflies every time he touches you!!-it's something alot of us has been looking for for a long time. Good luck-i truly hope things work out for you :)
2006-09-29 22:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by St. Louis Rams Chick 1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're not your siblings, and the youngest is often the most relaxed, so those things are good. Being 22 isn't a really good reason to get married, though. I guess if you find someone who you love, are attracted to, has the same values and decent prospects you'll be all set. But how easy is that? :-P
2006-09-29 22:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with being picky about who you marry!
If you are wanting to be married, you will probably be more receptive, and more forgiving, of little flaws or quirks than your siblings seem to be.
2006-09-29 22:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was the youngest of three, both of my brothers were married and divorced and my oldest one remarried, when i was at the day of my wedding i didn't want to follow there path, i was scared but i did get married and 5 years later i got divorced, its not easy following your siblings. but when you find that special one, and you know in your heart its right go for it. some people are scared to end up in divorce its pure hell. especally with kids. but when the times right you know whats best for you.be brave and take the first step.
2006-09-29 22:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by jamai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just take your time and do what feels good to you. They may have commitment anxieties and they don't want to settle down for whatever reason.
You shouldn't be so quick to want to get married when the right person comes along and believe me you will know and feel it then do what comes naturally.
2006-09-29 22:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who said everyone in life has to get married? If they do they do. You on the other hand are too young. Kick back, relax, have fun then think about marriage.
2006-09-29 22:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT U SHOULDNT REALLY CARE FOR WHAT A PERSON REALLY LOOKS like well a little but that doesn't really matter as much like their personality what really matters is that they care for you and that they love you for who u are and treat u right and well for ur brothers and sister they have to do the same but everything comes at its time
2006-09-29 22:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me their afraid of commitment. How was your childhood? Sometimes that has a lot to do with it. Don't worry you won't be like them if you don't want to be. Make sure you find the right person before you just dive right in there.
2006-09-29 22:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you keep thinking that, there will always be a barrier there in your way. trust your gut and instincts. i love this quote and i hope you'll like it and keep it close. "no man or woman is worth your tears... and the one that is would never make you cry"
2006-09-29 22:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by Fumadero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋