what do i do when i hear everybody say that my boyfriend harrison who is goth is ugly and they say that right to my face should I stand up and say something or should I just let it go? what do I do
2006-09-29 15:26:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well is he ugly?
2006-09-29 15:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by becca_nnz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stand up for him! If he's your boyfriend, you must have some feelings for him, and you can't just let people talk about him like he means nothing. YOU like him and that's all that matters, but you shouldn't just allow them to say things.
Don't get me wrong, that doesn't mean you should go all out and start a fight with them, verbally or physically. Just tell them plain and simple, they're allowed their own opinions but if they are meant to hurt someone else, they should keep them to themselves.
2006-09-29 22:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by Boxers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's your friends saying it- stop hanging out with those friends. Ask yourself whether it's worth a confrontation to bother with the people immature enough to say that **** to you. If it's really killign you go ahead and stand up for yourself, but really they're probably just trying to get a rise out of you and if you start yelling at them they might just think it's funny. Either one is ok. Go with your gut.
2006-09-29 22:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand up 4 him
2006-09-29 22:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by SdM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any of my friends...i stand up for. learn how to word your words like u are full of wisdom. he wil thank u for it. it's not easy if your friends are not on your side! i dont necessarily agree with everythin btw. u have to be clever enough to represent him but vague enough to not become him entirely. u r a person of yourself.
2006-09-29 22:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by burntvalentine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt let them talk bad about him if you like him....stand up for him- or let them know that it isnt cool to talk about your boyfriend RIGHT infront of you- good friends just dont do that.
2006-09-29 22:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ellen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really do care for him. u need to stand up for him. its apart of a realationship, if you just take it and let them degrade him like that, that makes you no better then they are
2006-09-29 22:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to stand up for him, but if you don't really like him like that, then laugh it off.
2006-09-29 22:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by leocruz21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a defense for your boyfriend. It would be nice. Wouldn't he do the same if someone called you "a psychotic *****"???
2006-09-29 22:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore people. You can't live your life but what people think. If you did then you wouldn't be yourself. As long as you think he looks good that is all that matters.
2006-09-29 22:28:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say something about it. Tell them they are stupid or say that their bf/gf is the most hidious person on earth.
2006-09-29 22:33:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋