is it ok if my Fiance forgets our Anniversary if i can punish him by not letting him kiss me for every dayhe forgets he dont get a kiss... is that wrong... i mean i love him but yea... is it?
2006-09-29 15:21:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure he loves you more than you would ever know. That should be more important to you than remembering a certian date on the calender. Don't punish him to hard by not letting him kiss the one he loves. If he puts an effort like having it on a calender then be happy with his efforts and let him kiss you as often as he (or you) would want to.
2006-09-29 15:35:41 · answer #1 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can punish him, but then it will be up to you what punishment you will give him. It is okay if you dont punish him aswell....
Just make sure that if you DO punish him, make sure that it is fair, like not letting him kiss you for 2 hours or something. (if you do 2 or 1 hour(s), then your most likely to get a passionate kiss at the end of the 2 or 1 hour(s) and you're most likely to get an apology, too!) It worrked with my bf!
Hope this helped.
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2006-09-29 22:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's the worse he's done, you've got a wonderful man! Some men aren't programed to remember dates, women are the one's with that gene. If another holiday comes around, make hints or remind him couple of days ahead of it. The only dates they remember is when their football game is on or when a friend of his did this discusting thing in the car. They're not really romantically invovled like we are. Most of em don't even care if their birthday comes every year. It's a guy thing, don't worry about it and save your anger for much bigger problems, like if he wrecks the car while staring at a girl walking down the road!
2006-09-29 22:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by St. Louis Rams Chick 1976 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no if he forgets your anniversary then he obviously isn't thinking too much about you and I would lose the guy I mean if he can forget something that big then how's he supposed to remember all the little things like picking the kids up from school or your birthday and many more things. Good Luck
2006-09-29 22:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by xxxlostsocalgirlxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, the game of "tit for tat" does not work well in a loving relationship. Is it really necessary to punish the man you love, like a child who forgot to pick up his socks?
If you let him know his forgetfulness hurt you, then hopefully that will be enough.
2006-09-29 22:24:46 · answer #5 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah - it's wrong. Maybe 1 night, but how would you like it if he decided not to call if you forgot something?
Guys are not normally big into dates. Treat him as you would like to be treated.
Me - I married a girl w/ the same birthday. Haven't forgotten it yet.
2006-09-29 22:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are just forgetful. Put a note on the calender.
2006-09-29 22:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by Stormy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up
2006-09-29 22:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by lyndles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, its not wrong...he should remember, but don't be to hard on him, guys forget alot...but the no kiss idea is a good one. mind if i steal it?
2006-09-29 22:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well guys have very short memories when it comes to stuff like that ive been married 10 years and i have to remind my hubby every year.. so dont be to hard on him...
2006-09-29 22:28:36 · answer #10 · answered by whisper29me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋