I called her(my current girlfriend)earlier this evening from my cell phone!!!!!!We(my girlfriend and I)talked about us!!! She said that she recieved a call from a friend of hers who withdrew from Hiram Gilbert Andrews Center located in Johnstown, Pennsylvania! Now, I am -- I guess -- considering going back to school in January of 2007! But we are not 100% sure yet as to whether or not I will go back to school!! But if I do go back to school in January of 2007, my current girlfriend said on my cell phone earlier tonight: "I'll dump/break up with you if you go back to school"!Is she saying that because she doesn't know what she wants?? If I go back to school, I don't know what I'll even DO if she(my current girlfriend)
dumps me if she finds out that I am going back to school(like I said
previously, we do not -- 100% know as to whether or not I am going)!!! Please help me!!!!!!
2006-09-29 15:18:37 · 16 answers · asked by michael_kleman2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way, I am thinking of going for the Cognitive Skills Enhancement Program(or CSEP)since I had a couple strokes when I was little!
2006-09-29 15:32:25 · update #1
If there is anyway possible, go to school. School will benefit you for the rest of your life. You may or may not be with your girlfriend for the rest of your life. If she will dump you because you go to school, believe me, she will dump you for something else in the future. If you have to make a choice between your girlfriend and
school, please choose school.
2006-09-29 16:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by RY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to put this so bluntly, but your girlfriend sounds like a loser. What woman doesn't want an educated man with a future? It sounds like she wants to avoid a breakup or you finding someone else "at school" while you're there, so she is going to make a pre-emptive(sp?) break-up...for some women it is all a game and even the breakup she will want to be the first.
I'd say go ahead and dump her, she's already threatened to breakup with you because you want a future, you shouldn't kill your future for some girl, especially one as manipulative as her if you indeed do decide not to go back to school, she's already created a doormat of you, she'll be able to do anything to you after that.
Be wise man, break up with her, tell her that your future is important to you, and that she should be happy that you're wanting to do that, but if she doesn't want you to, then she is probably not the right one.
I'll stop writing there, I think you get the picture.
2006-09-29 15:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend tells you she'll break up with you if you go back to school, than she's really not your girlfriend and she doesn't love you. Education is important, and her of all people should know that. Society today demands education. Having a break up with your girlfriend isn't necessarily a bad thing, maybe you need to experience some on your own and find out what you want. School is important, don't let her hold you back. I can understand where it can possibly be both of your decisions, but really, it's your decision. Don't make this harder than it is. Follow your heart. And if push comes to shove, she'll break up with you, and if it is meant to be, maybe you'll find one another again.
2006-09-29 15:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Sweetness572♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to school. Honestly, you think it would be easier with kids? She sounds like she's holding you back from being better. Sounds like she's immature and has co-dependancy issues and worries that you'll find someone else. Tell her to grow up. If it is meant to be it will be. If she is so pathetic that you can't leave her presence, do you think that continuing this relationship into a marriage will be bliss? You won't even be able to take a dump without her saying "Where are you? What are you doing?" And nevermind your personal space with this looser chick. Honestly...she needs to change her muddy diaper and grow up.
2006-09-29 15:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, if your gf wants to dumb you for going BACK to school, then she is NUTZO! If anything, she should be supportive of you going back to school, and support your decision 100%. Long distance relationships can & do work, it just takes both people working together to make it happen. Trust me... as a military wife, separations are hard, but reunions definitely make up for it! Do you think she'd cheat on you while you're away? Is that what you're worried about? Your education is extremely important. Your gf should understand that if she really loves you. Good luck...!
2006-09-29 15:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by Jemmie Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand she's dumping you if you go back to school?! Aren't relationships suppose to be about whats best for one another? (current girlfriend) do you plan on breaking up with her first? You should talk to her about this she's the only person that can tell you exactly what she means. If this is what your relationship is based on your domed!
2006-09-29 15:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back to school,be all you can you will not make it anyway because she is controlling you.going back to school will benefit you,you need it .maybe she needs to go to.my son better not let some GIRL change his mind about school.you can get a good job,and a better girlfriend.be smart.there is enough dummy's in the world
2006-09-29 15:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by cool mom32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dropped out of my one college for my ex boyfriend. (I ended up going back and getting my degree later.) I loved him so much, but now regret I dropped out then. I had a lot going for me at that school. Do not put your goals to the side for her. I am a woman, trust me, she is not going to get rid of you for going back to school. It is a little game we like to play. She knows how to keep you back and it is obviously working. Go ahead and do your thing, trust me she will follow (kicking, clawing, and yelling....but she will be there.
2006-09-29 15:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by halo 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I think you're afraid of heights. And 2007.
2006-09-29 16:07:33 · answer #9 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur gf is being stupid. she should b happy w/ whatever makes u happy (w/in reason of course). but going to skool is a good thing, so she should support u. dump her and find someone who really likes u.
2006-09-29 15:21:19 · answer #10 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋