me and my boyfriend of 2 years have normal couple problems but,,see i just dont think i can deal with this anymore..like i wanna leave and normally im so upset but this time im not i just wanan leave but i love him and i wanna be with him...i just feel like he is not taking me seoruisly and he thinks i wont leave him. and he just does the most meanest things than apoligizes and i dont know makes me feel like its me who is the bad guy but see i know its not ALL me i dont know what to do anymore HELP?
2006-09-29 15:15:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leaving is a decision you would have to make on your own and if you feel like he is hurting you emotionally then I would suggest that you move on and see what happens after that.
2006-09-29 15:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by loveable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should prolly leave him. Its really hard to leave the one you love. But just cause you love him doesnt mean that you arent supposed to be with him. Somtimes you need to think whats best for you. For a girl a boyfriend should be a person that she can trust in. A person that will be there for her and love and respect her. He should always strive to make you feel better and let you fell accepted. It will be really hard but in the end it will be whats best for you and eventually you will find you prince charming and be happier than you were before.,
2006-09-29 15:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by skateboarding is not a crime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive a feeling the guy will keep treating you like this,but you have a choice wether to keep letting it happen or to walk away and find a better person who loves you.it could be the hardest thing to do, but it could lead you fr far better things and who knows, by making a firm decision, your bf night see you as a mature person and start treating you right. best of luck!
2006-09-29 15:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by julie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's mean to you now, just wait until you're married. Leave the jerk. There are a lot of nice, loving guys out there just waiting to meet a great gal.
2006-09-29 15:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a situation that most guys love t b in.. that is one where the girl loves him more that he loves her..this allows him to be a assh.le and she does not leave him... but besides being a pain in the butt he is affecting your self esteem..and thats will really become a problem later for you.. my suggestion is that u leave and find someone that loves you for you and will take u seriously..hurting and apoligising is only playing in your head..so put a end to it
2006-09-29 15:30:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if he is mean to you and then nice. This sounds like a potential abuser. He obviously isn't taking you seriously and you aren't taking him seriously either. Evaluate your relationship very carefully. If I were you I would leave him for sure.
2006-09-29 15:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by Stormy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie don't let him punk you like that show him you mean buisness and let him go! Now if he comes back than maybe its meant to be if not don't sweat it of course its going to hurt for a minute but you deserve someone who understands you and knows your worth as a woman.
2006-09-29 15:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by lovely_ms_t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy, leave. There are other guys out there who won't treat you that way.
2006-09-29 15:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its time you moved on.
2006-09-29 15:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him
2006-09-29 15:20:58 · answer #10 · answered by SdM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋