how can i get my date to not be so shy at the next dance? he didnt dance AT ALL!!! i had fun with my friends but i was going back and fourth to the bleachers to sit with him, and then go with my buds to dance. after the dance he called his parents and told them he was coming home, he got grounded for 2 weeks because he didnt tell his grandfather that he was going. he stormed off and i asked him what was wrong, if he needed a ride still, and if he was walking home. he ignored me and ran. i started crying because i care about him and i wanted to know what was wrong. he cant use his phone for 2 weeks and i will only see him at school! i feel empty, what should i do with all of this going on??? PLEASE HELP!
2006-09-29 15:15:14 · 7 answers · asked by lulu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's probably angry that you left him alone to spend so much time with your friends. Hun, next time try to remember that when you are on a date, then you are with THAT person, not your friends. Maybe you should have brought your friends over to him so that you could all hang together in a group, and he wouldn't have felt so lonely. Give him time to get over his anger, i'm sure he will come around.
2006-09-29 15:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by LibraT 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I used to be shy at dances when I was in school too, and I still don't feel too comfortable dancing in public. Some people are just shy. He may have been watching you out there dancing and having a great time and wanted so badly to join in, but didn't want to be laughed at, especially in front of you. He may also have been embarrassed to be grounded in front of you.
Talk to him and let him know you care about him and didn't mean for him to feel uncomfortable. If he decides to go to another dance, practice with him first at your house and reassure him so he'll know he doesn't look like an idiot. You can at least get him to the point where he can dance to a slow song and won't be completely left out. In the meantime, sympathize with him about his grounding and when he's free again, go on a date you know he'll enjoy--such as to see a movie he picks out.
Good luck!
2006-09-29 22:25:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny Alice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad because he messed up. He probably didn't dance because he was feeling guilty for being there in the first place. He shoulda told them he was going and I bet he'd have had a better time. At least smile that he got in trouble just to be your date:) . Next time make sure he's honest with his family first next time and you just might have a better time. Don't rub in his mistake either. Male ego's are sensitive. Just move past it. I"m sure he's a little embarrassed by it too. So next time you see him thank him for getting grounded to see you but it would be nice if he didn't lie again. Then let it go...
2006-09-29 22:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by Baby girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it kinda reminds me of my dance i started to cry and my best Friend i expected him to help he left my problem 4 his date then he acted like nothing happened it made me more upset then him and my friend Abbie started fighting over who was the better friend so him and i talked then i found out he wasn't even sopost 2 go 2 this school this year we worked it out so what i have to tell you is that u 2 need to talk it out
2006-09-30 18:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by mitchelmussoluver101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he looks like a person that doesn't have dignity and the most important is that he acts like a kid!!! I think that girls usually act like that, not boys. do not cry for stupid things. he should learn to be responsible and to solve his own problems. Now that you asked him to drive him, he feels like he is depending from another person maybe...let him alone for some days and see what happends. he looks really shy....
2006-09-29 22:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by (^_^) CHiccaaqui(^_^) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him some space let him calm down become close friends agin bild up ur relationship then bring it up or just put it behind u and start over ull b fine!!!
2006-09-29 22:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by syd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive and forget.Better luck next time.
2006-09-29 22:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋