I recently ran into my high school sweetheart who at the time was my fiancee,it amazed me how different our lives really were and how much we had grown and changed since we were in high school.When the question is resolved I'll explain more about my situation with my former high school sweetheart.
2006-09-29 15:01:25 · 13 answers · asked by Sweetie1204 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems like most of them do NOT stay together. There are rare cases. I have a friend who married his H.S. sweetheart & they are happy.
My H S sweetheat turned out to be a heartless psycho! The last time I saw him, after I married my hubby, I told him it's a good thing we didn't get married, because it would have been a quick divorce!
2006-09-29 15:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by from HJ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes
He was very jealous and needed to know where I was and what I was doing at all times...he was totally free to do his thing and always got mad at me even if I was with my college major friends studying. He even tried to tell me that I did not need an education and said I'd be home with the kids and that's all I needed to do in life.
He went off and is a VP of a big corp...I became a college professor and married a successful lawyer..glad it did not work out....I am happily married for the past 26 years with 3 grown sons...must I say more.... That relationship would have been a disaster and would probably be divorced from him. He is now married to a woman who shares his professional interest and has one son the age of my youngest. I run into his mom occasionally and she always tells me that she wishes I was her daughter since we got along so well...the wife is a real cold person and she (his mom) keeps the peace to have a relationship with the grandson....that's life...his loss is my gain and sanity.....I would not change what I have now for him......
2006-09-29 22:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sammyleggs222 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a high school sweetheart. He was the "big man on campus" and everyone wanted to go out with him, but he wanted me. He was gorgeous and a year older than I. He was becoming a "bad boy" and I was a good girl. We split because I was pretty pure and he wanted a girl who would satisfy his needs. He married and had something like 10 kids. He also got fat, lost his hair and is working as a janitor cleaning toilets. I've been told that he's embarrassed to see me, especially since I still look good. Oh well; I've been over him for years but still enjoy the memory of being part of the couple everyone wanted in high school.
2006-09-29 22:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes. Did not stay together because I wanted to play the field. Then I met my husband who was from another town and the rest is history, including any feelings for my high school sweetheart.
2006-09-29 22:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My HS sweetheart and I have been together for about 10 yrs, married for 5, and I love him more now than ever :) I wouldn't have ever thought we'd be together so long though LOL... we were (and still are) SO different. :) I guess our differences are what keep us close? Who knows... all I know is that I love being in love with him! This is a great question!
2006-09-29 22:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Jemmie Vee 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I had a over the top fixation on a much older boy in high school that took up all my four years. He was super populare and had the prettiest girlfriend in school. Then after he graduated they broke up and he and i started to see eachother.He wasnt all he was cracked up to be he ended up in rehab living in his moms basement. What was i thinking????
2006-09-29 22:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes i did have a high school sweetheart, but after high school i need to go to other place several provinces, after 2 years she got married to her classmate. since then i was convinced that it's really hard to maintain a long distance love affair.
2006-09-29 22:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by juresco 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really messed up mine, have been looking for him for many, many years, would love to know how he is doing, I do know he fulfilled most of his dreams that we once shared, except us being together. I would give anything to sit down one last time and have a long conversation, and explain why I did what I did. His name is so common that I have lost track of him for the last 10 years. I am just so glad that he stayed on track for most of his goals.
2006-09-29 22:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by koni 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am still with my Hs Sweetheart........I love being married to him....we are still in our mid 20's we have been together since the 9th grade....nothing has changed, we still love each other the same, x1000
2006-09-29 22:04:21 · answer #9 · answered by Do I know you? ya right LoL 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes I married her, 23 years we are married. Now in the process of a divorce and she is so nasty, I don't think she wants to let me go , but she listens to everyone but me. She forged my signature on 98,000.00 dollars worth of loans. I can't continue to be with someone I can't trust, especially the one that I trusted the most. Sad isn't it ?
2006-09-29 22:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by schlongy1969 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋