I remember being a young girl in a small town, and young people can be ugly! Do not "put out for anyone" If your b/f has a room mate I assume it is not high school so they should all know better in the first place, if you are threatened with bodily harm report them and go away for a few days, as far as the rumors go believe me they go away as soon as some other "scandle" flares. Stand your ground even if you are scared, hang with new friends, and if all else fails you can hang with someone tougher than them, even if you have to "bribe" them. Good luck it will work out.
2006-09-29 14:44:13
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answered by malraene 4
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What tangled webs we weave! First of all, tell an adult. any adult, peferably start with your parents, but tell a school administrator, a teacher, and in a small town like yours, even the local police. Even though no one is going to beat you up if you stop "putting out" for this guy, it will be safer for you to have reported the threat anyways.
If you don't like him anymore, just tell him.
If he is as "hot" as you say, anyone of the other 4000 girls in town will be glad to take your place. Ignore the rumors unless threatened with more physical violence. But get an adult involved.
2006-09-29 14:42:35
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answered by Number1son 3
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i am the queen of rumors so i know how u feel.
i once heard i was with two guys at the same time and i was married at the time!
but with time all passes away trust me. heard so many rumors abt me that i think i can write a book abt them.
for now just keep low key. the more u talk the more trouble u will get into
they want u to react if u dont react they will find something abt some one who will. so dont react.
for now u shouldnt break up with ur b f wait till all cools down. if u do it now it will make things worse
2006-09-29 14:40:51
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answered by in ur face 4
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Sounds like you have gotten tangled up in a bunch of drama. Maybe you should relocate to another town, I don't see any easy way out for you. You could try talking to your boyfriend maybe he can help you find a solution that can make you both happy and free from being hurt.
2006-09-29 14:41:17
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answered by mistypa12000 2
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First, you need to ask yourself if you care for your bf, and if he cares for you. No matter how nasty the rumour is, no matter how many threats are against you, you need to believe with every ounce in your body that you and him can beat those rumours and threats together. Next, you need to assure your man and his friends that you care for him, and you'd never hurt him. That way you'd be able to get them on your side to deal with the real sluts in town. Those girls are just nasty-*** jealous bitches who don't know when to shut up. The rumours about you hitting on this one girls man is juss another way for them to break you guys apart. YOU NEED TO BE THE STRONG ONE IN THIS!!! If you break up with him, not only will you be confirming all those rumours, but the girls will be on your *** even more, thinkng that it's what you do with every guy. so again, stick with him ok? You will live through this, if it's the real thing.
2006-09-29 14:41:14
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answered by luscious_ladie 1
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get out of there...
if u can't time heals things or at least dies them down
just put on a brave face, don't show ne1 that ur intimidated, lay low for a while, spend time with the guy alone, other ppl should mind their damn buisness, but i'm guessing ur a teen, i feel for u i do,
i was in all sorts of trouble when i was young but not on a large scale like this, i would hate to live in a small town i swear.
2006-09-29 14:40:09
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answered by Anonymous
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go to a big town like new york or something and when u get there tell him that its over and dont give any clues on were u are or call the police that is crazy to kick someones *** just cuz u broke up wit him
2006-09-29 14:41:28
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answered by Anonymous
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Welcome to red neck America. I am so sorry for you.
One check point is have you already had sex with him. If you have .. it will be bad but perhaps not terrible if you did it again. If you haven't that is much worse in my humble opinion . but terrible any way one slices it.
Do you have any one to support you?? friends family? watch your back?
Can you chill out until you can catch a bus out of there? do you have relatives in another town, pref another state? Can you get a restraining order?
I knew a patient older cleaning lady who used to warn her drunk husband that he would get rolled if he continued to go out with the boys .. yup .. she the wife rolled him everytime he came home drunk .. saved up a stash and left and got a divorse.
2006-09-29 14:43:21
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answered by Anonymous
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sit down an have a talk with him ,be4 it get to him in the wrong way.try to explain yours part of story . try get the guy who they say the rumor about you an him an get him to explain to your bf that is not the case,so that you could get truth out once an 4all.
2006-09-29 14:47:33
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answered by Anonymous
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If he's that hot they'll be happy when you dump him. You can't be intimidated into staying with him. If you don't want to be his gf be honest with him and break up. It's really not anybody else's biz.
2006-09-29 14:40:37
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answered by lucy02 6
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