He has grandparents that don't travel far. Some of my family is from out of town(all over the East coast) but all my friends live in PA. We live in PA.
2006-09-29 14:34:18 · 10 answers · asked by LaLa 78 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Grandparents do not fly. Plus I would like my family and friends to meet his family and friends. I am afraid two events would not allow that. Is it wrong to say this is my wedding and I want everyone to come to PA?
2006-09-29 14:54:08 · update #1
IT's both of your day so you two should make the calls on where to have the wedding. I tell you from past experience you can't please everyone. Someone out there will complain regardless where you have the wedding. Here is a suggestion for you that might please everyone. Have a wedding at Pa still invite people from Ga if they can make it great if not than it's understandable. Maybe after the honeymoon you can throw a B.B.Q. at Ga for those who could not attend the wedding. That day you can show slide shows or wedding day of your wedding so your friends. and families than share the happiness for you. OR you can have the wedding vice versa. hope this help.
2006-09-29 19:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by uniqaznmeg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you live in PA why not have the wedding there and go to GA afterwards and have like a wedding party or something with the people in GA and then you two may be off to your honeymoon
2006-09-29 21:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that a location that is closest to the parents and grandparents. If your friends do not want to travel, send them the video. Family is more important.
2006-09-29 21:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by croc hunter fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The both of you need to sit down and decide on the best thing for both sides. Whose family is closer and who minds and doesn't mind traveling.
2006-09-29 22:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by mzteajae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have two events, which is what my son and his Chinese bride did when they got married recently.
They had one ceremony and reception in Beijing for her family and friends, and another ceremony and reception in his hometown for his family and friends.
They had two great family gatherings, and those people who could attend both events had two terrific times.
2006-09-29 21:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what ever acomodates the most important guests. if PA is best, go to GA after for a small reception.
2006-09-29 21:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by hannah1015 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The bride to be is the one that plan the wedding.I plan my whole wedding.Do what ever makes you happy and your husband to be. Maybe you should sit down and talk to him first,and try to fly your grand parent.
2006-09-29 22:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by lanie1713 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet in the middle VA or NC
2006-09-29 23:44:36 · answer #8 · answered by svu_telly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
West Virginia would be about half way.
2006-09-29 21:36:14 · answer #9 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can the grandparents fly?
2006-09-29 21:35:27 · answer #10 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋