im really hot, i would know, i just like the idea of face to face SE XUAL activity for spiritual reasons, it sounds hot, girls are people too
would i be able to find a girl to sl eep with me even if im not atracted to her body in normal ways?
be honest, dont worry about hurting my feelings
2006-09-29 14:29:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-29 14:30:24 · update #1
i just like the idea of face to face sex, sounds hot, like better spiritually if i can make eye contact
2006-09-29 14:32:08 · update #2
im just not atracted to the female body, im not discusted by it though in any way
2006-09-29 14:34:18 · update #3
I'm not sure what spiritual reasons would cause you to want to sleep with a female if you are a homosexual male. But, yes, there are women out there who will sleep with you. I've met many girls who are fascinated with gay men and would do so. Especially ones with low self-esteem. However, if she is inclined to develop any feelings toward you, you might just be setting her up for heartbreak. She may still go along with that, but does that make it any more moral? If you are not having intercourse because of emotional attachment to your sexual partner, what kind of "spiritual" reason could be involved???
2006-09-29 14:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by swirlygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think that anything is totally possible... You just have to know how to go about getting what you want. I'm sure there are girls out there who wouldn't mind having s e x with a homosexual guy, but they probably won't come out and admit it publicly. Have you tried putting an announcement on craig's list? In the men seeking women or casual encounters sections, I'm sure you could easily find someone in your area that would be interested, especially if you live in a larger metro-area. Just be open, honest, and up-front about what your intentions are.
Being intimate with someone and having intercourse goes beyond simple physical attraction, so I totally understand the face-to-face spiritual stand point. Good luck & best wishes though, whatever you decide to do.
2006-09-29 14:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jemmie Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out is to try. Some girls actually like the idea of sleeping with a gay man, they think they can bring them back to our side. But if you want to sleep with a girl wouldn't that make you bi-sexual not a homo-sexual?
2006-09-29 14:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by shotohell7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm she could catch some disease ya'know. But you go against your true feelings and sleep with a girl?? Some pple do it coz they are afraid to tell their families. but please be honest with a girl if she finds it ok then proceed. If its for spritual reasons then honesty is the key. Why wouldnt you call urself a bi- that is most accetable and women do go for that type of men, (as I have seen on many websties, not me personally :)
Good luck.
2006-09-29 14:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by rajni l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a homose xual...why would you want a GIRL to sl eep with you? That just doesn't even make sense!
2006-09-29 14:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by soccersyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you sure can...I'm the same way though I'm a female and I can have sex with guys anythime I wanted though I dont think my GF would be very happy with me if I did that.
2006-09-29 14:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by Skylar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that alot of guys would find it very hot to sleep with you as long as you brought the other guy along for the ride too....
2006-09-29 14:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Officially CALL Shenanigans
2006-09-29 14:35:54 · answer #8 · answered by luis_11211 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would! i mean if ur hott and a nice guy...and as long as it didnt lead to any huge scandal that id have to deal with...but i sure u could get someone to do it! just say u wanna try out sex with a woman!
2006-09-29 14:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by fini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your gay then dont put yourself or anyone else in that awkward situation. leave the girls alone and live your life as a homo
2006-09-29 14:32:24 · answer #10 · answered by Billy T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋