i lost a son 2 yrs ago he was 5 i been having bad dreams of him dying over and i cant save him why?

Answer 1

We are born
in this world crying
and we leave it dying
but between these two times
we must live, love and endure
experience sadness
experience happiness
be love, be need
but above all ACCEPT

you haven't yet accepted your son's death.
Once you've accepted it with your heart, mind and spirit
you will not forget him but you will be at peace with yourself.

Answer 2

i've got lost my mom a million year in the past this month, one 3 hundred and sixty 5 days until now that I lost my sister and until now her I lost my oldest brother. John 5:28-29 & Acts 24:15 assures us that there is going to be a resurrection, i do no longer see how those that have self belief that their lifeless substantial different and infants are in heaven, Jesus suggested that those that bypass to heaven are neither male or lady, so how might you recognize the adaptation between them. Rev 21:3-4 says that there is going to be a time perfect right here in the international the place no person will die, Romans 6:7 says that all and sundry that have died are acquitted of their sins. This being the case there is not any desire for the pagan doctrine of a burning hell to exist.

Answer 3

I suspect I would also have recurring nightmares of inadequacy, for feeling that I couldn't save them, were I to lose my five yar old child. Whether or not you have conscious feelings of helplessness regarding the loss, you can still have subconsious unresolved conflicts which are expressed in dreams. If this is the least of the daily pain you endure for the loss, it might be a blessing.

Answer 4

I'm sorry to hear about your terrible lost.....its normal to have dreams and such about this...I have lost 2 brothers and also a Dad so I know alittle about this....I do have 2 kids too so I know the pain and lost you must be dealing with......you can contact me anytime....I understand!!
Your going thru a recurrence dream and seeking some type of closure to this too...have you seen a shrink or are you doing any meds??

Answer 5

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't really explain why you're getting those dreams; it's probably part of the grief process. However, since they keep recurring and they disturb you, I wonder if you wouldn't benefit from a dose or two of a homeopathic remedy called Kali bromatum. You can contact me for more information.

Answer 6

It's your subconscious trying to come to terms with the fact that we can't save everyone, not even our own family.

Sometimes things just happen that are so out of our control that it just will have to be. It's hard to accept that. Especially with a child.

With time, you'll start to feel better. Until then, good luck and stay busy.

Answer 7

i think your son is trying to let you know he's okay .and think about it how are you going to saved someone who's allready deceased.my mother died last year on her birthday she had just turned 68yrs old.i had a hard time dealing with her death but by the grace of i have moved on and i just put her in gods hands .i hope this answers your question .if not then you might want to cosult with a pastor or a preacher .

Answer 8

I'm so sorry for your loss. this nightmares can be normal. but just try to remember the good times you've had with your son. i was wondering if you've been going to a psychologist about these recurring nightmares. it could be a sign of something in your life that you're not willing to let go. god bless.

Answer 9

Thats not unusual it could be just grief,i sometimes get similar dreams about my wife because she died from a illness and i couldn't do anything for her at the time and you might feel the same about your little boy but it,s not your fault and try to be positive and remember all the times he made you SMILE.

Answer 10

It is normal to feel guilty about the death of a child. You are not responsible for the child's death. You should seek grief counseling to get you past the dreams.