theres one guy that likes me but is going out with my x bestfriend and wants to dump her for me.... then theres another guy that i like and he likes me back but both of us are to shy to ask one another out. i sort of like the first guy but i like the second guy more what should i do?
2006-09-29 14:07:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask the second guy out. You only live once. What do you have to lose??
2006-09-29 14:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me on this. If the first guy is willing to leave another girl for you, then chances are that no matter ahat he says, he would also leave you with a heartache for another girl. If the second guy is shy, then it is a good thing, because this indicates that he would not likely flirt with another girl. In your case, you should suck up your pride and ask him out. It would be well worth it, and since you already know he likes you, then you know he will say yes. As a guy myself, I know that the worst part of asking a girl out is wondering if she will say yes or no.
2006-09-29 21:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Know it all 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be Shy!!! Ask the second guy if he'd like to catch a movie or go out to lunch or just hang out. As far as the first guy goes, he's taken, for now. Go with guy 2 and see where it leads you. It just might be worth it.
2006-09-29 21:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by HappyApple 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go with the second guy. think of it this way. if the first boy you lie dumps your x bestfriend for you then another girl comes along and she likes him, he finds out, then he will dump you and go out with that girl. i would go with the second guy. dont be shy just be yourself if you act different than your normal self he might like you less.
2006-09-29 21:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately choose the shy fellow. Ask him out for a bite to eat or just a coke.
The one with the girlfriend sounds like trouble.
2006-09-29 21:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by MoonWoman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the second guy cause that way u wont have ur x best friend hating u even more for stealing her boyfriend! and i mean if u like him andhe likes u put ur shyness away and just go for it!
2006-09-29 21:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by cutie123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out with the second guy, its not fair to have him dump someone else for you. i mean how would you feel if a guy dumped you for another girl? you'd feel terrible and you'd probly scheme to get back at her...i would
2006-09-29 21:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by kevin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you know the second guy likes you then why are you nervious. He's gonna say yes
2006-09-29 21:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by babybeast 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bros b4 hoes
chicks b4 diks
lifelong rules always works....never kill off loong friendship for possibility of very short termed other person
2006-09-29 21:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by moth18two 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the second guy. if you like him more then youd should most definetly go with him!!
2006-09-29 21:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by save trestles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋