well tonight i m gonna order "fast food" , we need food, and sex, sex can be a fast food, so i m gonna cheat on my boyfriend. well we have been together for 2 years, oh we are getting married in 3 months, but i feel something is missing. we don't have sex very often, i think he might be ordering "fast food " as well, why should i save myself right? and i really need a good sex,this is the first time ever in my life of cheating.i promise i won't have feeling or anything, it' s just fast food.
2006-09-29 13:41:37 · 16 answers · asked by moon dancer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well thank for the advices, the problem is i love him, i did what i could do, there is nothing i could do more, i ve been telling him hey i m only 23, what i need to have sex, he does anything to avoid having sex, he told me he had stomache, headache, or something else, we rarely have it. i think he might be cheating on me as well, so i m sad, i m not okay , you are gonna ask me how do i know it, because he lies all the time, when i first met him, he told me that he was 28, and later i found out he was 30,that's fine, age is not a problem for me, a few day later wow, you know what i found out he was married and still married to a woman,the woman that he told me he dated her for 3 years. well another issue is that he is addicted to porn, and he always watch it when i m not there, may be he is obessesed with himself. i know you are gonna say how stupid are u still with him, well that 's what i told myself, i know i should cancel the wedding, believe me i have tried many times. it hurts
2006-10-02 04:41:35 · update #1
yeah that's great, way to go! what a GREAT way to start a marriage.
Instead of getting "fast food" why don't you give the ring back, cancel the wedding, and get all the fast food you can and then in a few years try marriage.
Don't get married, don't screw up other peoples lives, and most of all DON'T have kids til you're ready to settle down for real.
2006-09-29 13:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by Daughtry-luver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are telling people about what you are doing online lets me know that you are uncomfortable with what is about to happen. Most people come on here for advice. My advice: Cancel the wedding!! If you all are having these problems now, these will only get worse once you are married. Feelings or no feelings, cheating is CHEATING. Its wrong and its hurtful. I am not trying to judge you just trying to help. IMy advice: f you are going to get your "fast food" then break things off with your boyfriend. I wish you the best.
2006-09-29 13:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by Charlee's Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKAY wait just a few minutes and read this...
Fast food in general creates un-desired result. Nothing healthy about fast food.
If you believe he is seeking fast food, then you shouldn't think you should dine at the same type of restaurant. You guys need to seek a common platter......
Sex is what you're looking for and so is he....SOOOoooooooo!!!!...... would suggest that you both seek a mutual common, or a desire, or a fetish that you both enjoy and make life together what you seek.
Life as partners is hard to keep....and for that BOTH need to accommodate each other and desire life to the fullest in all life delivers. Sex can be more then just sex. Seek a fetish you like and explore. Seek a fetish for him and explore....i am sure you will find a common ground and sex will actually become on the back burner to make way for your desires, his desires then sex will fall right into place.
Take my comments for what i believe they are worth.
2006-09-29 13:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by unclemikee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me there is no such thing as cheating being ok. And if you've been with him for two years and youre about to get married it might be time to speak up don't you think. And no matter what you say there is going to be some kind of feeling either before or after.
2006-09-29 13:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by lilmiss_06senior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the need to have sex with someone other than your bf,then do not marry him. These feelings your having can only get worse. Save yourself headache of a divorce and find someone you really want Tobe with.
2006-09-29 13:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by mopjky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my god where did u get that sh!t from, fast food is cheating and u r getting married in 3 months do u want to ruin everything, just tell ur boyfriend that u want more sex
2006-09-29 13:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by sweetie_pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sure is,
But don't you think something is wrong between you two
I think you'd better address it. Don't make a big mistake by rushing into marriage without being sure he'll satisfy you in all areas
2006-09-29 14:16:03 · answer #7 · answered by topgun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, do not cheat especialy because you are going to get married! You will ruin it and you will end up not knowing who the father of your child is and end up on "Montel" or "Oprah". Don't do it!!!!
2006-09-29 13:47:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys both need pre-marital counseling before you walk .
2006-09-29 13:48:58 · answer #9 · answered by sexxymamma86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,you mean you're gonna have yourself some 'Tube Steak'?
2006-09-29 13:45:01 · answer #10 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋