i guess i slept with this one chick last night (i was wasted) and now she's all over me.....anyways the problem is she WAS a virgin and now she thinks we're together..... how do i get her to leave me alone in a nice way?....if not i'm going to tell her WHAM BAM THANK YOU MAM!
2006-09-29 13:28:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well , you should have thought about that before you layed down with her , but then again she should have too just let her know nicely . Don't be a dick just tell her
2006-09-29 13:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to her that you really shouldn't of slept together hell lie and tell her you have a girlfriend and you were apart because of a fight but you got back with her. there is no easy way to tell a girl that it was in fact a wham bam thank you mam and being wasted is not an excuse
2006-09-29 20:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by daydreambeliever0000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know she was a virgin before you did it? Shame on you if you did. Anyway, just tell her she is a nice person, but you made a mistake because you had been drinking and you don't want a relationship with her. Don't leave any possibility in her mind that you might see her at a later time though. She will keep bugging you if you do.
2006-09-29 20:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by so_silly_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth that you were drunk, that you didn't mean to lead her on, but your not interested in a relationship right now. Do it soon, so she doesn't start thinking theres way more than there is. Good Luck!
2006-09-29 20:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by ME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try telling her that you're not compatible and a relationship isn't going to work. Since you mentioned she was a virgin, try to end it in a nice way. You could "scar" her for life. You were her first and she is naturally drawn to you because you are her first.
She'll probably cool off if you're honest with her. Always try to be nice first.
2006-09-29 20:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by myhandsarecuffed 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say, Hey ya know about last night well i was kind a ok really wasted and i didn't know what i was doing. i'm not sure that i'm ready for a relationship
2006-09-29 20:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are such a jerk. And you can't use being "wasted" as an excuse. You did it and you knew you did it. But it's better to tell her instead of leading her on. And just remember karma comes back for ya. Thanks for the two points.
2006-09-29 20:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by SweetClue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOY, YOU HAVE A PROBLEM. NEXT IT WILL BE THAT SHE IS PREGNANT WITH YOUR CHILD.TRY NOT TO GET WASTED NEXT TIME. WOMEN ARE MORE FUN WHEN YOU ARE SOBER. I DON'T THINK ANY ISSUE WILL COME OUT OF IT. IF YOU LIKE HER , GO OUT WITH HER , AT LEAST FOR A WHILE. NEVER KNOW SHE MIGHT BE OK. GOOD LUCK.
(LOVE AND RESPECT ALL YOUR WOMEN)
2006-09-29 20:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by crane1951@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Tell her that you are very, very sorry ... that you like her and respect her, but that you did not mean to go that far ... that your judgment was impaired. Again, extreme apologies and kindness are in order!!!
2006-09-29 20:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by J.Z. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oops! You're screwed buddy. No matter what you say to her, you are going to hurt this poor girl.
2006-09-29 20:29:45 · answer #10 · answered by yumyum 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋