what do you do when your partners lack of emotional connection makes you feel like you are the one making the only effort? can it really be ok to let go of love when its soo strong. I just feel a void, but he sees nothing wrong? ahhh this sucks!! lol
2006-09-29 13:10:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i sooo feel you on this one hun. i have even been open to my guy about the void. and im always told i didnt even notice...im like how could you NOT?! but he says sorry says hes working a lot or whatever..but you still feel blank and blah about it. im always 50/50 on him really caring about me..sometime i just want to break it off cuz im not getting what i need fully
2006-09-29 13:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by Criddles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you say that the love you have is so strong if there is hardly an emotional connection. What the heck else is there to bond a relationship on a deep level if it's not emotional?
2006-09-29 20:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by jessarose143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL if both partners do at least one thing everyday that they know there partner likes then it would be just fine, BUT men only make a effort if there is a split on the cards,
2006-09-29 20:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. Seems like I'm the only one that continued to do the "little things" after the marriage, and all that's important is sex to him now. I will never understand why, we do SO much to get the one we love. But once we get them, we don't stop doing the "little things" to KEEP them. We all know the honeymoon ends quickly, but it doesn't have to. I always do things for my husband to let him know that I still love him, in hopes that he would get the hint and do something spontaneous for me, and times he will. Just put forth your effort in the "little things" (send an ecard, write notes and lay them everywhere he will look, etc.) and he'll eventually catch on, and do them for you.
2006-09-29 20:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by ttaarraa74 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it can be ok to let go of love when you are the only one in love. You deserve to be loved back. I kept up this same life believing he loved me (vows, marriage, kids) until his mistress told her husband about him, and of course, it came back to me. The bigger loss is to be alone when you are in a 'relationship'. I find I am not nearly as lonely now as I was then. Good luck to you, this is a tough decision.
2006-09-29 20:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you ever talk with him about how you feel and how it affects your emotion and you want his support and that you are tired of carrying the load and if he really love you then he need to show some support good luck try a marriage counsler
2006-09-29 20:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by poda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I try to entertain them, but it's just really hard when they don't get it, or don't run with the ball. When that happens, the whole thing just goes South and we never hear from each other again.
2006-09-29 20:21:09 · answer #7 · answered by Tet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I felt that when I was married, The bigger void comes later when they're not around, appreciate it while you can.
2006-09-29 20:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by ღсяаՀу∙թіхіе∙ժմѕτღ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think sometimes women expect to much from men..but we think differently and i think alot of woman see this as lack of connection, and get upset about it
2006-09-29 20:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by joilong 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah...
2006-09-29 20:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋