Last week I went on this date with this guy who is 20 years older than me and he is exactly what i'm looking for. We went dinner and a movie, we played some games and he won me stuffed animals and just hung out. He payed for everything. We have plans to go see a show next week and the tickets are $119 dollars each and he bought them. We talk every day and text all the time. But at the end of our first date he only said bye. he didn't even try to kiss me or anything. I don't know why. Does he only want to be friends?
2006-09-29 12:34:37 · 18 answers · asked by melmae702 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Impatient!!
life still not over babe..u will have many more dates with him..and he will do a lot..why u want it so fast? and then u will loose the passion.
take the speed appropriate.
2006-09-29 12:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by temptations_irresistible1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and i are in similar situations i recently started dating a man that is 17 years older than me, and what I've learned so far is older man are most more respectful and sometime i have to make some of the first moves, but if you're wondering what kind of relationship he wants maybe you should ask him, but in my opinion someone that pays $119 for some tickets want to be a lot more then just friends. he seem to like your company, i think you should just follow his lead and see where it goes
2006-09-29 19:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he is afraid of getting hurt once again if any man is willing 2 buy 2 tickets@119.00 each 4 tickets says one thing he sure dont want sex he wants a relationship but wants to take things slow so its fair on both partys involved girl just b patient and see what happens dont make any fast moves or he will hit the hiway
2006-09-29 19:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by Scott R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I smell a fish don't be stupid you know he may be married and there are lots of clues to look for- like are you able to call his house,can you reach him anytime, and is he very secretive has he invited you over to his place ,im not saying this to rain on your parade because im very happily married but ive been through it all and it never hurts to take some friendly advice,ask a lot of question early on, if he gets irritated by them then hes probably got something to hide Dr Phil always says that a man who is interested in you his life should be an open book,whether your dating or married,and if there is someone else hes betting on you to be naive.and id say if everything checks out id say go for it have fun and take care.
2006-09-29 19:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by my space 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not sweat it. Maybe he wants to take it slow. Or maybe he is a true romantic. Friends don't buy 117 dollar tickets. Be patient see what happens.
2006-09-29 19:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes 20 years older than u he is more mature and knows that taking it slow is good just in case u decide not to b together
2006-09-29 19:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by want2BaMOMMY!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its just maybe he is obeying the third date rule of not kissing until the third date or he respects you and wants to have a relationship with you
2006-09-29 19:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by foxxylesley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait to see how the next date goes.
2006-09-29 19:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by verypretty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe not, some guys just dont like to make the first move, their afraid their moving to fast ,ya know ?
2006-09-29 19:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is so into and i think he doesn't want to make the first move because the reason he is afraid of ur reaction and losing you ! go for it he like you! GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-29 19:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by amber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋