should i break up with my boyfriend?

Question

we hardly see eachother cause he lives 45mins away. its been a year. he now has a license, and getting a car. but i am still fed up, cause we have been seeing eachother 1 a week or sumtimes once every 2 weeks or twice every 2 weeks. its great when we together.but when we dont i feel like ending it after a while.

Answer 1

Give him a chance to redeem himself when he gets his car - if things don't change though I would have a serious conversation with him about where this relationship is going. It can be difficult to build something meaningful when you spend such little time together. Difficult but not impossible. Just depends where you both are at right now.

Good luck.

Answer 2

45 minutes? That's not very far. I live in a big city, and I often travel for an hour or more. You shouldn't give up that easilly, good friends are hard to find. If you really love each other, you could consider getting a place together in the middle. Until then, when you go over and see him, you could plan something romantic. Then during the time away from him, you will be wondering what you would do without him, and excited about your next date. Just a thought.

Answer 3

i have been dating my b/f for 4yrs and we hardly see one another. We used to go to the same school, but since he graduated and I am still in school I only see him when I go home, which is probably one a month. Its up to you whether you want a long distance relationship, I cant give you an answer here, but tell you, if you really do care about him and can handle the distance, then stay with him. But it is up to you, your the one that has to go through this

Answer 4

I would say that good things come to those who wait but it sounds as if your already tired.If you are in love I think you guys need to talk this out & make an effort to see each other more. It could be worth trying just a little longer.

Answer 5

my bf used live 45 mins away from me but he comes to my place everytime he had a spare time, lets say 3-4 times aweek. and if he really wanted to see me eventhough he has to work, he has time for me. no excuse.talk to him about the relationship, then move on if he still wanted to do the same thing. you just a booty call for him. you deserve better.

Answer 6

wait untill he gets a car and if he comes se you very often no matter how long it takes him to get to your house he is a keeper. but if he still doesnt come to visit you even with a car and rarely talks to you then dump him! Goood luck

Answer 7

i hear ya i was in the same boat but he drove and i did sometimes i would go down to south philly all the damn time it was getting me mad alot b.c i had a new car and know one down there cars about ur car, we still talk as friends but it didnt work out i loved him hes that it just didnt work out

Answer 8

i've had a boyfriend like that b4 and actually what i did was date other people and while he thought we were only together, but he never really ask me to be his girlfriend. so i didnt take it very seriously. I think you should not worry too much and just make yourself happy.

Answer 9

well, me and me boyfriend live 5 min. apport and we only see each other fri. nigth, sat. nigth, and sun. from 5 to 12am. we've been together for 7 years so it's not that bad, you just have to find stuff to do when you are not with him..

Answer 10

You have to look at how long you been with him, are you in love with this person and what is he doing for you..... and if he is not coming around to see you, do you think he is seeing somebody else....