is it possible?cause i think that i am in love...& also i think other guys ive had sex with are sorta fallen for me...is this possible also?
2006-09-29 12:21:22 · 29 answers · asked by nae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually what you are feeling is an elevation of endorphins in your brain causes by orgasm/sex. Sex has nothing to do with actually love. That is why I counsel not to dive into a sexual relationship too soon. It can get confusing. Ask yourself...if I love him, why do I love him? If you can't come up with more than 5 concrete reasons, then it's just infatuation/lust.
2006-09-29 12:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it can make you fall into lust which is a big difference
love is not because of sex love comes naturally and when you find that one special person you will know what true love is but untill then you are not in love if you fall in love after sex. love first then sex not the other way if there is no love in the begining there will be none at the end only a whole bunch of lust. Dont go have sex with anyone unless you really love them first.
2006-09-29 19:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. If you have to ask someone else that doesn't even know you if you are in love then....NO!!!! You can have sex 1,000 with the same person and the act itself won't make them fall in love with you. It's better than they are already in love with you before you have sex. Otherwise what's the point? They are probably just using you if you aren't even in a relationship. You can't make someone fall in love with you by having sex with them. You can get pregnant though and then when you're pregnant you won't have to ask people if you are pregnant or not cuz you will know. Just like love. Don't ask us. Ask the guy you are with. If he isn't committed to you or a relationship or asking you to marry him then he's probably not in love with you. Don't use sex as a substitute for love. Love is much stronger than sex. You can have sex with anyone, but you won't always find the right person that will love you back even when you think you love them. Real love isn't selfish or persuasive. Or prideful. You make it sound like all the guys who have had sex with you are smitten by you. Wake up! And if you can't count all the guys on one hand that are supposedly in love after having sex with you then you have bigger problems.
2006-09-29 19:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's possible. How can you be kissing and hugging and being tender to someone all night and the next day not feel anything for that person? I mean, unless you're not attracted to each other in the first place. But if you are very attracted to each other it's hard not to feel something for that person. Sex is supposed to be an expression of love between a man and a woman that love each other.
2006-09-29 19:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by MAMA 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex is the most intimate thing two people can share. Maybe this could be possible. But remember, the whole picture, do you want to spend the rest of your life with this person in and out of bed. That will answer if this person is the one. Good luck!
2006-09-29 19:24:54 · answer #5 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not as such, especially if it's purely sex and you don't date or spend any time together as well. If you do spend time together outwith the bedroom, then the falling in love will have been a natural process triggered by your getting to know each other.
And blokes have a tendency to say they love you to get you into bed, so unless you're in a reasonably longstanding relationship, if a bloke says that to you take it with a pinch of salt.
2006-09-29 19:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by pompeii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Love and sex are two completely different things. Sex can make you feel attached and connected to that person, and in a way you are. People sometimes use sex as a way to avoid an emotional bond. You sleep with someone to avoid sharing feelings and a true bond with them.
2006-09-29 19:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by turtle33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is NOT love, nor can it build itself into love- not true love.
Sex is suppose to be reserved for a married couple as a gift of their covenant relationship. Any relationship built upon sex is set up for failure in more ways then one. Sex is given away to freely these days, that's why society is so messed up.
2006-09-29 19:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by Cjs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see the problem with having sex before love is it is backwords. you have to sex to show your love not to fall in love. The only thing that will happen with trying to fall in love by having sex is you will get a STD or get preganate and i'm not even going to talk about the emotional pain sex brings to people that abuse its purpose. SO my answer is no sex people don't love you becuase you have sex with them.
2006-09-29 19:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You`re in love with sex .
My ex and I were really into sex ,but the person she was eventually killed my love for her .
Yes she was great in bed ,but she was mean ,anti social and a thief.
So long Bye Bye .
2006-09-29 19:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋