...my current girlfriend is such a sweet person that I feel I'm doing something wrong, but this new woman is just so beautiful. Am I doing the right thing?
2006-09-29 12:18:35 · 53 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not like I'm married to my current gf, and I think I'd be happier with the new one. Should I really think of what might of been instead of following my heart?
2006-09-29 12:25:56 · update #1
If you're just not that committed to your relationship because of any reason, then it is the right thing to do. You're not doing her any favors by delaying the inevitable.
Sure, it's possible that you may regret it later, but then again you will probably regret it if you don't.
2006-09-29 12:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by jessc 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you are doing the right thing because your girlfriend deserves a guy that will think she is the most beautiful woman in the world.
Which, to the right man, she will be.
I'd say there's more to it than the other girl is more beautiful. Otherwise, we would be trading in our BF/GF or spouses every couple of years. There's ALWAYS someone more beautiful or more handsome, so let her go, but don't be surprised if when you want her back (in case Miss Beautiful throws you over for a more handsome guy), she's found someone who knows how to appreciate her. Because as you said yourself, she's such a sweet person. Some lucky guy will snap her up quickly.
Good luck.
2006-09-29 12:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by LittleBitOfSugar 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only you know that mate. I think it is wrong to screw your girlfriend for a better model, however it is your life to lead. If u stay with your current girlfriend, you may not be happy, this new lass may make u happier.
If u think u can get a better deal in life with the new girl then go for it, just don't expect roses from your girl. U will not keep her as a friend, I can guarantee, because u are effectively saying she is too ugly for u.
Again do what is right for u. No point being miserable. Just know that u go, u can not avoid hurting ur current girlfriend.
2006-09-29 12:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by Knight-wing 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like Trish's answer to this earlier but will attempt to build on it.
Are you talking about inner or outer beauty. Inner beauty is far more important to you please bear this in mind.
Outer beauty, hmm may be associated with like a fashion parade, a new shiney car or a fantastic looking house. All of these may make you look and earn you admiring glances but do they get you where you want to be. To maintain the big house has you work hard in your job, so you must choose a job that earns you lots of money to pay for these but which may not be the full self expression of you. To maintain the beautiful girlfriend you have to make sure you enjoy being with her . if you enjoy being with the current g/f more then there is obviously a trade off.
You are still experimenting with relationships (prob as we all are), but what i mean is that you don't have any responsibilities or commitments like children etc. The stakes are low in comparison.
Whether the stakes are high or low there is no right answer to you question.
However I have two more
How does your desire to look good to others drive your life ?
Does looking good provide the results you need in your life ?
Its up to you and your set of values and who provided the better fit for you. Consider the other answers but take your own path.
2006-09-29 23:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must most definitely 'dump' her as you so nicely put it. At least that then gives her the chance to meet someone worthy of her.
If you truly loved your girlfriend then you wouldn't even be asking the question.
When you've got over the first couple of weeks of passion with this new woman who is so beautiful, I bet you'll be regretting your move. With a bit of luck your current girlfriend will have found a new love and you'll then have learned the lesson about the grass always being greener on the other side of the fence.
2006-09-29 12:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if the girl your with isn't right for you, then end it. Don't judge on just looks, thats stupid. We all like to window shop and often see something else better we'd like to have. The buck stops there though. A genuine, real and loving relationship is something to hold onto with both hands.
So yes, you are doing something wrong, your in a relationship you don't really wanna be in by the sound of it. Sort it out, find that someone special for all the right reasons. You'll be forever unhappy unless you don't.
2006-09-29 12:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by rikerlock 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she may have the looks on the outside, but ask urself whats she like on the inside? is she the sweet person that ur current girlfriend is?? u might think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, but thats not always the case, u could be throwing away something very special for an illusion.
think about it...
2006-09-29 12:25:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump her and go out with the more attractive girl my friend. All of the guys will be jealous when you are out and about. Yes You are doing the right thing just ignore all the comments saying you are shallow they are just bitter twisted women or guys who are jealous because you have a fit bird to nob.
2006-09-29 12:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are leaving her just because you met someone more attractive, then you are wrong. there will always be someone more physically attractive then the woman you have at the moment. its about time you stop being so shallow and pay attention to the more important things in a woman and a relationship
2006-09-29 12:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by Lana L. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Looks are not everything that is only skin deep. This other girl, do you have things in common, do you have fun togather, does she make you smile, in other words are you dumping your girlfriend for someone you really care about or for looks? Because if you really care for this other girl than go for it because you should not be with someone because you feel bad for them.
2006-09-29 12:24:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋