My Boyfirend and I Just Broke Up. About an hour ago...What Do I Do Now?

Question

I have been dating this guy 7 weeks now which might not sound long but is the longest relationship i have ever "offically" had.

We started dating the first day of college for 2 weeks I though it was dumb and too soon but he proved to me it wasn't and in the last few weeks before today I was so happy.

He ignored me for like 3 days and I went to his room to talk to him a half an hour ago and basically said He eather had to tell me whats up or it wasn't going to work because of all the stress he was putting on me. He said it was getting to him how fast everything was going and how extreamly serious it was becoming. We agreed to end it.

I am sitting in my room and just crying cause i realize how much he meant to me. I miss him so much right now.

When I was sad he was the person to come and hold me and make me feel better.

What do i do now?
I don't know what 2 do with myself anymore...

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My friends say I should get drunk with them and go out and party...

Part of me wants 2

But the other side of me just wants to lay on my floor and cry all night.

this is hitting me like a brick

Answer 1

don't make yourself suffer for someone. if he ignored you-then he doesn't want you. it was actually too soon to get into a relationship. don't be bummed out-you're in college. live it up or else you're gonna regret it when you're older. make new friends; keep yourself occupied. go out with your girlz.

*BIG DON'T: don't sit in your room listening to heartbreaking songs*

*DO: learn from this experience (like how not to get into a relationship too soon & how not to take everything fast & extremely serious too soon)*

also don't go back and forth to him-that'll just create illusions for you & break your heart even more

**Don't depend on a relationship to make you happy.**

Answer 2

Oh, please! Seven weeks? That's just an acquaintance, not a serious boy friend. He's got the right idea. You're going way too fast and getting way too serious. Besides, you aren't there to work on your love life. Aren't you supposed to be doing some studying?
Your best best right now is to get up off the floor, go have a shower, then get outside and go for a walk. Or go to the gym and do a workout. Anything to get your blood circulating again, and hopefully some of it will get into your brain and get you thinking straight again.
Play it cool. Don't let him know how upset you are. Be friendly, be pleasant, but don't try to resurrect the relationship. If you don't push, he's more than likely going to be curious, and interested, and willing to try again but at a slower pace.
Guys are really turned on by girls who don't throw themselves at them. But when you start getting clingy and lovey dovey early in a relationship, that scares them right away. So govern yourself accordingly!

Answer 3

Hey there, don't worry about crying and feeling lost. It happens to everyone who breaks up! :-) I cried for a week before deciding he was not worth the tears. What I did was retail therapy! Go shopping, hang out with girlfriends, and consciously choose NOT to think about him. I tell myself that I'm too good for him, and this helps most of the time. It might sound cliche, but its really true - time heals everything. Try to move on faster than him, it'll give you a kick! :))))

Answer 4

Try to remember what you did before you met him. You had a life then, and it was a pretty darn good one. Recreate your life before the boyfriend, do the things you did then, hang out with the people you hung out with. They can be supportive of your "singleness" while you recover from the break-up blues ... which WILL hurt less as time goes by. Just be your own individual self, and try not to get absorbed into someone else's life to such an extent next time.

Answer 5

No! listen to your friends and go out have a good time.

Keep yourself occupied and don't let it get to you. Is hard to be dumped and especially if this was your longest relationship. But think of it as a learning process, because this is not the only time is going to get broken. This is just testing out your heart for further relationship's. You need to learn and get up and keep walking with your head straight up. Don't give in to him that easy.

Answer 6

I'm so sorry to hear that.
R U Okay?

Well any way u should put your act back together and just forget about him.Just think of the good times.And just remember there's other guys in the collage.And about going out drinking just do the right thing for your self and everyone around u.

Keep In touch.

Answer 7

Get on the phone and call some girlfriends. Go out and have fun. I know its hard when you break with someone but honestly your friends will always be there for you. Pick yourself up and live your life. Dont waste time crying over someone. You could be out meeting new people.

Answer 8

Cry and let it all out! Your boyfriend is scared of a relationship, because its going to fast for him and that's understandable. Try to talk to him and let him know, that you are giving him all the space he wants, however you would very much like to stay in touch with him, because you care. Ask him if its okay to call him once in a while, and you would like to hear from him as well. Wish him all the best and say good bye. Maybe, he will reconsider.

Answer 9

Now is the time to Soul search.
Ask yourself ,what went wrong .who`s fault it was and how do I fix ME?
You can use this as a learning experience .Why can`t you have a relationship last very long ?
Are you the jealous type ,possessive ,controlling ,domineering ?
You need to find out how and what to change.
Let it out (cry )
Don`t get drunk with your girlfriends ,you`ll end up sick or in a one night stand .

Answer 10

go out with ur friends and thank God u didn't get pg. there is an old song that any girl can use especially if it is only a 7 week relationship," I'm gonna wash that man right out of my hair" do it and get on with it. he was not the one or everything wouldn't b going thay fast. the right one is out there just don't b in such a hurry.