2006-09-29 11:51:50 · 30 answers · asked by bubblescg2008 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"DO"? I mean, what do you think you can or should "DO"?
Sit around crying? Talk about him all day? Expect a gift anyway? Call him and say "It's my birthday"?
There's nothing you can "DO" but continue living your life, celebrate your birthday and move on.
2006-09-29 11:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Happy Birthday. You can still enjoy the day by spending it with family and friends that care about you. You didnt say the reason why you guy broke up. I am sure your not shallow enough just to want a gift because you dont seem upset about the break up just upset that he isnt getting you a gift. Maybe thats the reason this guy broke up with you(your materialist). I am sure you mentioned that your birthday was coming(a lot) and he sensed that you would rather have a gift than the most precious gift you could have( a friend and a man that loves you is priceless worth more than a gift you get out the store)
2006-09-29 12:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
+ Sounds like you just wanted a present. Do you mean that it would be OK if he waited until two weeks after your birthday? I think you should be a little less materialistic then maybe he would not have broken up with you. Some people do not celebrate their birthdays with anything other than a card and perhaps going out to dinner. It is one of the hard things about dating. He may have felt pressure about how you think things should be done and worried about not being able to make you happy.
2006-09-29 11:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by Clamdigger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you don't expect some one to stay with you just because it's your birthday. That's quite selfish and childish. Who cares. If some one breaks up with you then they break up with you. What you do is go out and have a kick *** time on your birthday. 8 months is really a very short relationship. It shouldn't be too hard for you to get over it.
2006-09-29 11:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by lillibellemichele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.. My boyfriend tried committing suicide yet his mum said him and unwrapped the rope round his neck... the subsequent week I did it because I felt like it develop into my fault yet again, the nurse broke down the door and positioned me immediately right into a ward. Adam develop into in the ward for a million week, and that i develop into in there for per week and a 1/2. we are nevertheless at the same time. A twelve months 2 Sundays in the past. i visit't understand the soreness that you're feeling or have felt (i understand this develop into printed a lengthy time period in the past). If I lost Adam, i'd kill myself the day after or that nighttime. I recommend bypass to councilling and attempt that way. If that would not paintings, I recommend examine with Jamie about it and tell him the way you sense and in simple terms tell him what you quite favor him to do. wish everythings going ok for you!!
2016-12-04 01:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a thought, don't hold me on this, but I had a bf like this. See if he wants you back after your birthday. If he does, he was getting out of a present. Cheap creep! Just see if he does that. Have yourself the best birthday you can and I'm sorry he is a jerk.
2006-09-29 11:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break this to you (no pun intended) - but break-ups have nothing to do with a date on the calendar. They happen when things aren't working out - which can happen anytime. Consider your a birthday a time of renewal, rebirth and a fresh new beginning.
Good Luck!
2006-09-29 12:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by RT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what I did, I called all my friends, we all went out on the town and had a blast. Girls friends are the very best people to be around (usually) after a break up. They'll get you through it. And, you'll probably have a better time with them anyway.
2006-09-29 11:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun im so sorry! hes a loser and you can live without him. dont let him put you down. move on with you life and you can find someone Way BETTER then him. just enjoy your birthday and be grateful for what you have. trust me feeling sad about a break up isnt what you should be doing. go out and hang out with your friends. trust me i know this stuff from experience
TAKE CARE
2006-09-29 11:59:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That he wasnt interested in keeping the relationship going and wanted to be sure he didnt have to buy you a present or take you out for your birthday.
2006-09-29 11:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. He'll get back with you soon afterwards. It is just an easy way to get out of the whole "gift" thing. It is pretty common with guys under 30. Watch out for the holidays also...but you should be pretty safe for Valentines Day.
2006-09-29 11:55:35 · answer #11 · answered by KQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋