Hey.. okay there is this beautiful gurl in my class... but i haven't noticed her till the other day and I was like damn where did she come from... she sits behind me in the next row, two seats down... i want to holla at her but its really hard because she leaves class really quick and walks in the opposite direction as me not to mention she walks really fast... so im like how the **** am i supposed to talk to her when i don't even get a chance... i would go sit next to her and talk to her.. but im too shy to do that in front of everybody, especially if i get shut down... not cool at all.. so does anybody have any ideas... her beauty is too overwhelming to pass up... :) so HELP
2006-09-29 11:41:47 · 10 answers · asked by Shaboobalaboopie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone is so afraid to make the first move it's a miracle that any of us ever get together. Get strong and just sit next to her and talk to her first. You don't have to ask her out or anything just say hi or whatever.
2006-09-29 11:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience there is no formula that fits all. Each person is an individual. If it were me today, I would find a time when I knew she had a minute to talk briefly, then I would be polite, ask her if she had a moment to talk, and if she did I would look her in the eye and tell her exactly how I felt.
I wish I knew this many years ago when I was too shy to ask the women I liked out. I was so self-conscious I could not even say yes to a girl I had a crush on when she had a mutual friend ask me out (because she was just as scared I would let her down). Talk about hopeless!
Have faith in yourself, be confident. Either she is free to feel the same, or she isn't, but the longer you wait the more confused you will be.
You could also write her a note, just tell her the truth, you're too shy to talk to her because you are floored by how beautiful she is in your eyes.
One more thing, give her your full attention and don't worry one bit about what other people think. That self-conscious concern about what others think will shut her off faster than you can snap your fingers. It tells her what they think of you is more important to you than she is, she will pick that up without thinking about it (women are sooooo wise on these things). Be well groomed, not by the local fads, but by what you think she will appreciate.
2006-09-29 19:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by water boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you say her beauty is to overwheming to pass up then you have to over come your shy ness and just ask her if you can steal a moment of her precious time. Then if she says yes then you tell her you are interested in getting to know her. Then just take it from there.
2006-09-29 18:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by didi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should start with going to class early and waiting out door and until she comes to class. Give her a smile and a hello and see what her reation. Give her your number maybe.
2006-09-29 18:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by dreaming_again2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just run after her after class. if she's everything you say she is then it's worth it to be late to your next class. or you could send her a flower they are always doing stuff to raise $$ for the school.
2006-09-29 18:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you can answer your own question. If her beutey is so overwhelming, then you can find away, right?
2006-09-29 18:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by Clay_Hockeydude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her, aks her something about your homework or something you "didn't" understand. i think thats a good way to start a conversation.
2006-09-29 18:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by Mademoiselle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say "hey hwo r u want to do sumthing this weekend heres my number can i have yours." it worked on me today
2006-09-29 19:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by natrual flirt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry- holla at her butt?
do you think that she can't tell what your about?
you will be lucky to get anything besides a nasty look.
2006-09-29 18:45:28 · answer #9 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Forget about that slut............................go out with me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-29 18:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋