Only date that type of guy. Seriously, all I hear is them complain about how they can't find a guy to treat them right and yet when you treat them with respect and maturity they just blow you off and go for some loser who could care less. And you women wonder why 'good guys' are so rare? There is no real demand for them in the first place! Why finish last when you can win the race?
2006-09-29 11:32:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some people cannot accept responsibility for their own actions. Really. They cannot accept the fact that the source of most of their problems is themselves, and thus make the required changes to improve their life. It requires less effort to play the victim card, and it gets her sympathy from her friends.
2006-09-29 11:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women are scared of guys who treat them good. But for the most part... guys who treat women with respect and maturity... are a bit put off. They wonder if its real or not. And more often than not you cant exactly ask "why are you so nice to me" cause well lets face it... its like asking a guy if you look fat in a dress, no answer is going to be correct. Good guys arent rare, just usually taken, or shy.
2006-09-29 18:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by perfectlyanna 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can say I myself dated many guys I always hated dating. It was a challange, and something I was used to. When I was with someone who was good to me I got bored, and didn't know what to do with the goodness I was being given. I learned eventually that a good man is hard to find. NO matter what, the lady will decide. The ones that complain are just undecided as to what to do with their intentions. They think they want it. I was with a man that left me for his ex, who turned out to only hurt him anyway. I guess that was justified. I was with a guy who beat me, but he got beat back, and I left..so what was he left with? I was with a guy who wanted notches on his bed post...left with his bed post. I had to learn what I wanted...and so do the women you are dealing with!
2006-09-29 18:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by clarkgirl2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because water sink to it own level, and you drawn near you what you are. I personally like a man to treat me with respect and kindness. But I have alot of friends you constantly complain about how there mate is treating them. Sometime we have to look at ourselves.
2006-09-29 18:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by Ellen J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because they are stuck in the rut... They are used to being treated badly and don't know any better, it's all they know. That's why when a terrific guy comes around , they cant see him, takes 'em outta their comfort zone.
2006-09-29 18:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some girls are already used to it and look for the same type of guys.
2006-09-29 18:39:58 · answer #6 · answered by phoenixchickNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right women love jerk guys sometimes but it'll change they get older and need a real man!
2006-09-29 18:35:14 · answer #7 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Birds of a feather flock together!
2006-09-29 18:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by djsanner@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called pmt
2006-09-29 18:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋