My ex is completely still in love with me. He sends me these long emails that drag on about how he is still hung up on me and how he thinks about me all the time. I havent had the heart to tell him Im dating someone else, sooo... should i?
2006-09-29 11:11:18 · 9 answers · asked by ladywonder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be upfront and say that you are dating someone else and while you appreciate his emails your new fella doesnt. You could also change your email address. Remember honesty is the best policy.
2006-09-29 11:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you don't think he will react badly toward you (violently) then tell him you have moved on and are seeing another guy. Don't lead him on and give him hope by acting like you are receptive to his e-mail.
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I have been married for 2+ years. My wife's ex-bf still e-mails here sometimes even tho she has not talked to him for years. The e-mail's are "where are you.. I miss you.. are you ok..."
If she responds then he may somehow track her down so she just ignores his e-mail. She doesn't want this psycho to know which state she moved to or her married name. Your situation sounds different tho. You should nip this in the bud before he creates an unrealistic scenario in his mind.
2006-09-29 11:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by Steve P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello ladywonder,
Send him an e-mail back and tell him that you've moved on and are already seeing somebody else. Be sure to tell him that you don't want anymore e-mails from him and that you will be blocking his e-mails as spam from now on. Don't candy coat it any more than that, and you stop writing him from here on, OK?
--Rick
2006-09-29 11:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
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far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-09-29 11:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by G C 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, he's eventually going to find out, so he'll know there's no chance for him anymore and he'll move on.
2006-09-29 11:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by angela g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should be honest with him and let him know there is nothing left for him that hes been replaced.
2006-09-29 11:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it come out gradually don't let it all come out cuz he might go crazy.
2006-09-29 11:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by brunette_chic0503 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chose the one who loves you
love is life not Lust
2006-09-29 11:21:10 · answer #8 · answered by UnderstandingLife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-09-29 11:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋