i definitely feel a little insecure about my weight. Like i weigh less than 190 but i should be 175. I got two women going who don't mind me dating. One even said she'd help me get better girls. But even that isn't enough motivation for me to stop eating everything? Should i stop smoking pot to get the girls? (PS- my current two girls wouldn't make it in any magazine, but are ok.) AND i'm not shallow at all in any way (feminists). I am half controlled by sex, which is as god intended it- you know for the planet earth party.
2006-09-29 11:09:04 · 18 answers · asked by Hymn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should lose weight if not to get better girls, then just for your health.
2006-09-29 11:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This will probably sound like your father answering.
First stop smoking pot that never helped solve any but a medical problem related to cancer.
Second what ever you do "do it for your self". Getting girls may be a great incentive it all depends on you.
Make sure your sex drive is not over whelming you and taking control of your life.
2006-09-29 18:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many females that love jock types but there are other that rely on personality. losing a few pounds will definately help your health but dont let that get you down. ive seen model type females with guys that didnt score a 1 on a 10 scale.we are all in this world for a reason and as you get older you will be amazed at those great lookers going to parties and other types of gatherings that are alone simply because they were and still are too picky who they are seen with. take it from a mature older man who has seen great looking babes that were too choosy with whom they dated and ended up with someone less better looking than they were used to.be your self and dont try too hard to impress every female just because you think they are good looking.
2006-09-29 18:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get fit for YOU. It sounds old fashioned, but confidence is the sexiest thing. You can be 300 lbs and if you are confident and happy with the way you look, you'll score the girl you want.
I, myself, like bigger guys. (It's not because I'm big, I'm short and petite) I'm not sure why...I guess they don't seem to be as cocky as completely buff-inated guys. I have even dated a super skinny guy, because he seemed confident. He scored me because of his personality, not because of his body.
As for the pot, I'm not sure how old you are. That seems like it should be a phase for people. Meaning you grow out of it. Getting high isn't the best way to score a classy chick. Even a hot one, at that. Intelligence is sexy. Being completely sober and with the chick is important to a girl. My current guy was into drugs, in the past, but never while he was with me. I wouldn't date him if he were still into that. I grew out of my own pot smoking years ago.
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2006-09-29 18:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by G C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like what you have - loose the weight, but how you can be so sure to get better.
Is a lot of men doing the hand work because is no women around.
Thanks for giving them opportunity to find one which you quit.
2006-09-29 18:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think u should definetly try for hotter girls cause I like hot guys and I would want a hot girl if I was a boy? I dont know about the pot thing, but u might wana stop but I dont think pot hurts u. Ive done it befor but I dont like it, so it do wat ya want with that, just try to get hotter! that's wat god would intend u to do!
2006-09-29 18:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by P!ATD GIRL! Luvn Brendon Urie! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better girls dont care what you look like
2006-09-29 18:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,you should get fitter and also you can try to have a girlfriend,not necessarily a hot one,but a girl as you dream...
2006-09-29 18:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by A K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it for yourself! And not a woman anyway you all ready have a girl!!!
2006-09-29 18:14:03 · answer #10 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋