I have this theory that men like(well not neccesarily like but r subconsciously attracted to) women that have the same type attitude or even features of their mothers and I think the same for women and their dads
2006-09-29 10:58:24 · 13 answers · asked by mssjj87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry well if freud said it then give him credit
but n e way i dont only mean good qualities,
like some women who have abusive fathers attract or r drawn to abusive men
and if a mans mother was loud and dominating then thats wut usually attracts them, it is wierd to me, i love men who are cocky like football players and thats how my dad was and also how he used to hold me when i was like 3 thats my comfort when im with my man ill lay on his chest and fall asleep
2006-09-29 11:36:02 · update #1
You are right. It's because when we were little the guys use to be around their mom the most and the girls were around the dads.
2006-09-29 11:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by stephannlsn 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is just theory, not at all fact, though. I could see the type of attitude being true, for the simple fact that you were raised by your parents in a good way and you value there way of life and would to find someone who shares the same interests. Not the features though. That seems way too weird.
2006-09-29 18:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by Dr.Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say we guys like girls who are not exactly like us because it's going to be like looking in the mirror if both of us are the same. if you look around, many of us actually want someone that are quite, not polarly different than ourselves. it's mainly because we think it would be nice to have somebody that can complete us. my mom is a very nice lady and she has been a great wife for my dad for 32 yrs, but i don't use my mom as a benchmark to compare to my girl.
2006-09-29 18:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by 21questions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean I'm attracted to someone who is breathing, has 2 arms, 2 legs, etc. then yeah.. but other than that.. there is not way in HELL I'd ever pick someone that looked, smelled, tasted, thought, or sounded like my father.
2006-09-29 18:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you go and try to pass this off as your own theory?
Have you ever heard of Freud?
2006-09-29 18:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is differnt i DONT look for the same attributes as my father, although some, but for the most part no
2006-09-29 18:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by iluvluceee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iv often thought that too. Weird.
2006-09-29 18:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HEARD OF THAT TOO, I HAVE THE SAME COLOR EYES AND HAIR AS MY HUBBY'S MOM AND WE ARE BOTH REALLY SMALL. BUT, MY DAD IS SHORTER THAN MY HUBB, BUT THEY ARE BOTH JERKS.
2006-09-29 18:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
EEEEEEEEEEEEEwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!
No guy in his right mind wants to go out with their mom.
2006-09-29 18:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea that true
2006-09-29 18:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by the fool in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋