what does it really take for a guy to have intrest in a girl? and not physical features?

Question

i'm a girl who would like to be in a relationship, but i just don't get guys. . .
what do guys want in girls?
what are turn offs in a girl?
i just don't understand. . .
do guys like girls for who they are?

what do you think?

Answer 1

You're confused.

Congratulations because you should be.

Guys are all different just like girls and have different needs. Now darlin' if you want to be in a relationship you have to start slow (trust me that is mandatory). Now tossing aside the physical let's get into the mind.

Every guy has an individual list of turn offs and turn ons no one is the same. There are some universal traits guys don't like but they are also traits women don't like. You have to use the dating period to get to know the guy so ask him questions about him (just make sure he's asking questions about you too) and not just what music does he like or what movies ask him questions on serious issues and everyday issues.

You'll pick up on a lot just by talking and watching and how he reacts to you remember the best guys like girls for who they are.

Answer 2

I think there has to be physical attraction no matter if its the guy to the girl or the other way around to first have interest and then they get interested in the personalities which i believe makes someone either stay interested or not. but no matter what people say about it, there has to be physical attraction to begin with!

Answer 3

as guys, were are mostly visually in what we see. we appreciate beauty. having said that, beauty is only skin deep. a girl must have a good personality for me to like her. if i cant communicate with her it isn't gonna work either. she's got to be smart. but the biggest thing i like in a girl is humor. im alll about humoring people, but it is awesome when a girl can make you laugh


this is just my opinion, i do not represent every gu though.