Is it true that guys have sexual fantasies of sleeping with a virgin? Is it the allure of being with a clean girl and being the first one to f*** her? I'm a girl who's just wondering cuz I plan on saving sex for marriage but I heard that even though most men like sexually experienced women, they have fantasies of sleeping with a virginal girl.
2006-09-29 10:51:33 · 11 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes most men do fantasize about being with a virgin... part of it is the allure of being with a clean girl and being the first one to f*** her... but like for me i fantasize about it because i like the fact that i am the one that is teaching her about sex... almost like i am attempting to turn her into my version of the perfect woman.... It is true though that the first person you sleep with you grow a bond with and i don't care if you are 13 at the time or 23 you will never forget your first whether you are married to the person or not...... so if you want my advice it is to save yourself for marriage....
2006-09-29 11:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by William B 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My gut feel is that you are curious, potentially bisexual, and porn interests do not necessarily relate to the real world or liking actual people or not. You say you are fantasizing about a friend, so I assume this involves acts with him that turn you on, and I guess that the 'dreams' that you have also involve sexual acts too - I'd probably say that this is more than coincidence, but you may be suppressing some element of yourself, hence the subconscious rising of your other interests, whilst you are sleeping. It's your call, your friend may or may not be interested in anything other than friendship, otherwise you could potentially reflect on this some more, and see how your thoughts go. If you're single, then you're not abusing anyone's trust etc. Otherwise, just accept that we all have fantasies, many of them will not be fulfilled, unless we choose this. In your case, it seems that perhaps your fantasies are seemingly strong and not occasional, so this is going to be about you and how you wish to pursue things. Hope this helps. Good luck! Rob
2016-03-26 23:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the thing...they have fantasies of SLEEPING with a virgin, not marrying one. Most of us really want you to make sure that we can satisfy you in all aspects, including sexually. And the only way you can know that is with experience under your belt.
Again, don't confuse a mans fantasy of sleeping with a virgin and marrying one.
2006-09-29 10:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleeping with a virgin is more for bragging rights for a guy. Most men actually want a girl who has had sex before. When you do have sex with a virgin there seems to be an atttachment that grows more everyday. Do yourself a favor and save yourself. It will be a greater bond for you and your husband to have
2006-09-29 10:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by mgdrobert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you consider a non-virgin as unclean , and what make a girl virgin are her beautiful thoughts,as soon she starts to think how to loose it she's not a so called "virgin" .A women can have thousand of men but if she has kept her joy for life she's still like a virgin , while a 'real" virgin can keep untouched her lower lips and use to much the upper ones.
2006-09-29 11:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by Paul Alexandru Cazacliu 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am not a man therefore i dont think u will get a 100% honest answer but i think some do for the conquest of being the first while others treasure being your first and hope to be the only. Kudos to you on wanting to wait for marriage, just keep in mind many will try to sway you and irregardless of ANY reason they give you, stick to your guns. I waited as well......good luck and God bless
2006-09-29 10:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by iluvluceee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men has fantasies about experienced or mature women.experienced means a older women to them ,not a youger .
in the case of husband ,every man wants a virgin.so don`t be confused.it is better for you to save you for your husbend bcaz you are young not mature
2006-09-29 11:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by UnderstandingLife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't care about the virgins, I just like all types.
2006-09-29 10:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have this weird thing where they want a girl who will do whatever they want, but they don't want the KIND of girl who will do whatever they want...lol. The ideal is to "break her in" but still have her be a total freak. It's probably mostly a territorial thing.
2006-09-29 10:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by jonjon418 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U SHOULD KEEP BEING A VIRGIN!!
2006-09-29 10:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by Louise G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋