Virgins...?

Question

Ok i hav a question. I am a virgin and not that im planning on having sex anytime soon but i always wondered what guys think of virgins. Lets say you had a gf and u wanted to have sex with her for the first time and she told u she was a virgin wat would you say? Would u be turned off by the whole idea that she is unexperienced, or would you like it that shes never dont it before and you would be her first time? Do guys like being a girls first? Or do u just dont care? And also how would u feel if u wanted to have sex with your girlfriend and she didnt want to because she was still a virgin?

Answer 1

Who cares what guys think. If being a virgin is important to you then you need to find a guy who is willing to wait until you are ready. Losing your virginity should be your own decision and not based on anyone elses. Don't give into peer pressure. Make up your own mind if the time is right. When you feel you are ready then you are ready. Otherwise don't worry about it. Anyone who pressures you isn't really there for you. I do however beleive you should wait until you become an adult and make sure you are safe.

Answer 2

Don't know why I am answering this but anyway... First of all, this is a very generalized question and is answered strictly on opinion. There is no set way that all guys react, but there are certain reasons. If my GF told me she was a virgin, I would be OK with it, there would a learning curve that I would have to get past, but if I cared about her, it wouldn't matter. If my one-night-stand told me she was a virgin, I would tell her to wait and kindly bid her good-evening. It is what any responsible, self-respecting male would do. That answers the inexperienced question too. As far as how I like my girls, I prefer experience, but inexperience is not too much of a turn off. Although a little, but only because I date women who are at least 22/23. Finally, if I wanted to have sex and she didn't, I would respect that and either wait with her or leave her for someone else, but I would hope that she would never do anything she didn't want to do before she was ready.
Hope I gave you a little insight here. It is good that you are waiting till you are ready, you will respect yourself so much more in the near future.

Answer 3

Some guys get scared off and don't want to be their first cause they think the girl will be hooked on them. Some guys will be flattered if they are really into you for you - and not just that. You should make sure you wait - since you have - to share yourself with someone special though - make sure they are worth it and that you won't have regrets. Men can and do say a lot of things to get their way sometimes no matter what it takes - or what words they have to tell you - I hear people say this all of the time. You have to see their actions proving their words to you - dont' just take their words for face value alone.

It is more important that you are comfortable with your decision and that you wait until you know it is right. There are tons of men and no two are the same - all of them would feel a bit different and some wouldn't want to be ur first and some would - but when a guy loves you for you - he will want to cause it will make him feel special that you shared it with him. You may also want to wait for someone who is in the same position - so you both lose it together - you are their first and they are yours. If a guy respects you - he will respect your not wanting to have sex and he will wait for you - if he is worth it. If he does not or tries to pressure you - move on.

Just never let anyone pressure you into it.
:o)

Answer 4

i would be proud of her decision to remain intact of her virginity.that is a great way to find out what you really like and how to get experience in pleasuring each other if both are virgins. i think its great that you have gone this long without any type of sexual intimacy and i hope you have had no contact with the opposite sex.if i wanted to have sex and she said she was a virgin i would make her my wife. too many men and women have gone on and had sex and with too many others. then before you know it you have aids hiv positive or some type of stds. when i was a very young man i had my share of females but as an older and much wiser man i wish i had stayed pure. i see two people a man and woman both virgins getting married and know little of sex.that way they can define the sexual love together as a couple and experiment with each other to insure a great relationship together as friends and lovers.

Answer 5

It depends, I mean a guy always loves a virgin, but If she doesn't want to have sex for like then next 4 years of her life then I dont think so. I think a virgin is better though, as long as she knows how long she wants to wait. Also it depends, because if a guy doesn't want to get serious with a girl, then I dont think they would want a virgin, so that is a good way to test if a guy really likes you or just wants some.

Answer 6

are you sure that you want to lose your virginity, all the girls i know who had sex for the first time the next day they broke up with their boyfriends, but personally i dont care if my girl was virgin, but i was lil bit nervous with the idea that I'm the one who is going to be the reason for her losing her virginity.

Answer 7

If the guy you're with really cares about you, as a woman, then he should be willing to respect your values and be patient with you until you are comfortable with having sex, if not, then he's not worth being with. Personally a woman who stands by her beliefs and doesn't back down to pressure would lead me to want to be with them even more. Don't change who you are or what you belief for anybody...too many people do and regret it later.

Answer 8

Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.

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Answer 9

it sound like you are looking for someone to encourage you to keep your virginity to me. i slept with 7 virgins in my teenage years. i felt overly proud of myself for having been the one to open the door to the pleasure palace for these women. somehow i got the idea that was my mission in life. i did not even think about the fact that the girl was giving me something so special. something she would never be able to give to anyone else. i eventually broke up with all of the girls that granted me that special privilage. some were just one date things. the girl that i went out with the longest was the virgin that wouldn't give it ip. i wasn't that i did not try mind you. she was strong of will and i did not have the heart to force her. she always said that she wanted to be a virgin when she got married. and as far as i know she made it. you are a special person. there is no one in the entire universe that is just like you. giving your virginity to a young man that isn't mature enough to realize how special that act of love is would be such a waste. my advice is if you are not 110% sure that is what you want to do, don't do it. if your boyfriend really cares about you he will understand. if he really loves you he will be willing to wait. if not, he doesn't deserve it anyway. listen to your heart and don't forget to love yourself first and everyone else second.

Answer 10

Well, my first bf [ my husband now] he say he doesn't care that I'm a virgin or not.... but deep in his heart [he just won't admit it ] he's happy that he is the first man to take me .. He's a virgin so hey we both are unexperienced....