I have been dating this guy 7 weeks now which might not sound long but is the longest relationship i have ever "offically" had.
We started dating the first day of college for 2 weeks I though it was dumb and too soon but he proved to me it wasn't and in the last few weeks before today I was so happy.
He ignored me for like 3 days and I went to his room to talk to him a half an hour ago and basically said He eather had to tell me whats up or it wasn't going to work because of all the stress he was putting on me. He said it was getting to him how fast everything was going and how extreamly serious it was becoming. We agreed to end it.
I am sitting in my room and just crying cause i realize how much he meant to me. I miss him so much right now.
When I was sad he was the person to come and hold me and make me feel better.
What do i do now?
I don't know what 2 do with myself anymore...
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2006-09-29 10:41:43 · 34 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My firneds say i should get drunk with them and go out and party...
Part of me wants 2
But the other side of me just wants to lay on my floor and cry all night.
2006-09-29 10:42:25 · update #1
you cant solve a problem by crying, get your lazy bum up take a shower call some of your best friends and have a party,hey thats what relationship is all about,trial and error,you have to learn from it but dont dwell on it,life must go on.all you need right now is your best friend and the best pal of all an ice cold mr budlight.drain your sorrows with mr bud he is a good counsellor you just need a couple of him.and good luck move-on.
2006-09-29 10:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For tonight, I recommend that you do stay at home, on your floor, and cry. Talk to your friends on the phone...that will make you feel better. If they're not busy (it IS Friday night, after all), maybe some of your friends could come to your place and hang with you (and talk about what "pigs" men are).
I don't think it would be a good idea to go out *immediately* and get wasted, etc. That's mostly because you're (obviously) in a fragile emotional state at the moment, and you'd probably wind up doing something you'll regret later...namely, hooking up with some random guy.
After a day or two (or three, whatever), go out with your friends. Get entirely pis*-faced, but have your friends look out for you. Relationships come and go, and you WILL find someone who's perfect for you. But in the meantime, there will be false starts....take your time. You're young---a college freshman, right?---you have your life ahead of you (I know, I sound like your grandpa, but he's right!).
2006-09-29 14:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by jvsconsulting 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Getting drunk won't help. You'll have to stop obsessing over it first in your head, that is the hardest part. Then you have to relieve the anger or frustration, go to the gym. Then go to bed and sleep on it. Get up early and go visit family or friends- do your own thing. The most important thing is not to listen to some twenty something college kid that has little life experience and will just tell you to get drunk or get laid. If you have to listen to country music, it will make you feel better.
2006-09-29 10:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by Maine Landscapes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GO GET A FEW DRINKS AND MAYBE GO TO A CLUB OR SOMETHING< DON"T STAY IN CAUSE UR ONLY GONNA BE MORE MISERABLE IF U DO!!! TRUST ME!!! BEEN THERE DONE THAT!!! I WENT OUT AND HAD SOME DRINKS PARTIED MY A** OFF AND FELT A WHOLE LOT BETTER! JUST KEEP DOING THINGS TO KEEP U OCCUPIED SO U DON"T HAVE ALOT OF TIME TO DWELL ON UR EX!!! GOOD LUCK!!! :)
2006-09-29 10:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have fun with your friends. This man is NOT worth crying on the floor all nite over. YOU deserve better than that. Forget him and go on with your life. You will find someone else who will be good for you.
2006-09-29 14:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drunk? No
But...go out...and quick like a bunny kiss another boy....**poof** a 7 week romance can be history by one kiss from a handsome new guy. Don't look back...first of many frogs...keep kissin' till ya find a prince..and the fun is in the kissin' and searchin. Dry your eyes and get out there.
2006-09-29 10:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get drunk with your friends and party. The next bus comes in 10 minutes.
2006-09-29 10:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
For some reason, I think you two will get back together. He seems to really have strong feelings for you and it's happening so fast, that it's scaring him.
Let him have a little space and I'll bet he'll call you soon. Try telling him you want to take it slowly, it will ease his mind.
You both sound like really great people.. Good luck!!
2006-09-29 10:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by LittleBitOfSugar 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him again and she if he wants to work it out, explain to him how your feeling. No wonder why this is your longest relationship because you don't try at it. You can't just give up you gotta try to work it out. But if he is really sure and doesn't wanna work it out....Then you could go out and party. Don't try to get laid though that never helps, it just adds on the stress.
2006-09-29 10:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by bcch89 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all!
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-09-29 10:44:22 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋