Ladies is it problem if your husband or boyfriend you are living with has been giving rides home to a lady for a year now he works with and he never told you about it. When the lady he is giving a ride home lives in the same apartment complex as you’ll and he never mention not one word to you. When you found out about it not from him and you tell him that you know that he is giving her ride home. He responds in this way I didn’t tell you because I knew you would get mad and jealous. Then you found out one night his buddy ask him to move furniture with him at this same woman apartment, but he told you that night he was going to pick up the clothes from the laundry room. Why do men hide from their wife or girlfriend that you are helping another woman out?
2006-09-29 10:32:01 · 18 answers · asked by Wassup 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop acting mad and jealous when he tells you about the existance of other women and he'll be more honest with you.
2006-09-29 10:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I didn't tell you cause I knew you'd be mad and jealous? What kind of fool does he take you for?That's the oldest excuse in the book! If there wasn't anything wrong with giving the woman a ride home, then he has nothing to worry about! He should have told you, Men can be so sneaky! Next time you have the opportunity, when something like this happens, spy on him!
2006-09-29 10:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is definitely a problem if it has been a year and he has not told you, jealous or not you had the right to know. Ask him how he would feel if you had done the same thing. and he is obviously hiding something if he had to lie to you kick his a** out for a little bit if he loves you he will straighten up! if he doesn't than you are better off in the long run not having to worry about it all the time
2006-09-29 10:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by freckleface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off your question, "Why do men hide from their wife or girlfriend that you are helping another woman out?", don't generalize men because of what YOUR man did. He doesn't represent the entire male species.
Secondly, maybe he didn't tell you because of the way you're reacting right now? Maybe it wasn't that big a deal to him that he was carpooling with someone that HAPPENED to be a woman. What if he really was going to the laundry room and she asked him to help out on the way? I think you're looking too deep into this.
2006-09-29 10:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should have told you and the fact he lied to you about the furniture moving clearly states he has something to hide. He is using a stupid excuse to get out of it and that's not OK. Dump his sorry a**.
2006-09-29 11:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by abc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alarm bells should be ringing! If innocent why keep it and her a secret... If they are friends why not introduce the two of you especially living in same place... Its not looking good... I had same problem but chose to believe him rather than see what was really happening
2006-09-29 10:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. well, if he didnt tell you he probably thought you might be jealous. but there is also another possibility. and that is that he might just be cheating on you with this lady. it could be either one. and men are always like that. it happened to me, so i know how it feels. : )
2006-09-29 10:36:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just wrong. He should've told you. Where is the honesty here????? Now, instead of being mad, I'm sure you have thoughts that he's cheating.
2006-09-29 10:34:36 · answer #8 · answered by stephgirl78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of a red flag? Dump him. He's cheating on you.
2006-09-29 10:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by Poison Ivy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, people basing real life on TV shows. Let me ask you one question. How much is gas where you are at?
2006-09-29 10:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋