2006-09-29 10:28:54 · 25 answers · asked by David 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your even asking this question i think you and your wife need some serious therapy. If your even thinking about cheating that obviously means that your not commited to your marriage. And If shes a strong woman, if you do, you will feel her wrath and it wont be pretty. And I really hope kids aren't involved. If you want some1 else go ahead but little advice get a divorce first! BIG DISADVANTAGE!!!
2006-09-29 10:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by bcch89 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
disadvantage. I'm a say it like this, sex if outside the confines of marriage is a temporary "feel good". And whats bad 2 is that sex is a way to connect and bond with who your having sex with. So if your out cheating on your spouse guess what. You bout to catch feelings 4 another, then come backhome and mess up things with you spouse. Even if you dont get caught guess what. You still have to live with what 've done. And the guilt will eat you alive. B/c your human. So I ask you is it worth it???
2006-09-29 17:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by a1b2c3d4bj 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's an advantage if you and your spouse haven't had sex for a year because you don't feel that way towards each other any longer, but are still fond of each other, are tied together economically, and still have some form of future together.
Sex is just one part of a marriage, it's not the be-all and end-all. And if you're young but no longer remotely attracted to your spouse, it's horribly cruel to be expected to never ever have sex again as long as you live as a consequence of your feelings changing.
It's a risky advantage, but better than divorce in some cases.
2006-09-30 13:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing Good, can come out of cheating. Wither your spouse finds out or not, you are being unfaithful. It won't be long before you start suspecting your spouse of wrong doing. It is a natural tendency to judge someone from your own perspective. Cheating is lieing, stealing and just down right wrong. It can be habit forming as well. It is a boost to your ego when someone wants to give themselves to you. If you want to play the field then you need to be single again. And divorce is never fun. Think twice and then....don't cheat.
2006-09-29 17:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by loufedalis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its an advantage to whoever you've got on the side, cos (s)he will know it's pretty much no strings.
Disadvantage when u get caught and end up with the other person who never really wanted u all to themselves in the first place!
In my opinion those who cheat are just WRONG.
2006-09-29 18:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disadvantage. Always. No exception. Divorce is easy enough now that cheating is never excusable. If you are in a loveless marriage, end it before pursing another.
2006-09-29 17:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by trovanhawk 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Disadvantage -- my ex-wife cheated on me. She moved in the guy 2 hours after I moved out. Now, he does not trust her. He knows what she is capable of.
2006-09-29 17:31:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont see how it can be an advantage, since you would be hurting two people in the situation. I have never believed in cheating and I believe if you do not love someone, then you should end the relationship with them, before moving on to someone else.
2006-09-29 17:31:02 · answer #8 · answered by ridingis4life 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its great when your doing the cheating....... until the guilt sets in and your partner finds out and you break their hearts, run the risk oif splitting up your relationship and for what? a quick fumble? I've been on both sides of the fence, cheater and betrayed and the pain just doesn't out-weigh the fun. My advice ......DONT DO IT!!
2006-09-29 17:45:20 · answer #9 · answered by star28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always a disadvantage
2006-09-29 17:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by to_sassy4_u 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋