Well she told me she dumped he BF that she went out with after me, I said sorry to hear that (didn't know what else to say), she said "don't be sorry." She then said "I'm sorry for everything" to me, meaning we went through alotta crap, alot of it was me, some of it was her. We talked very briefly on IM, then afterwards I texted her and said I was glad that we "talked" to each other. This was last Sunday, haven't heard from her since. When we were together the first time everything happened so fast, and then everything fell apart so fast. She said she was stressed out, didn't imply why, though I'm sure it's cuz of the break up amongst other things.
She is THE ONE, I want her back in my life but don't wanna screw things up. Her birthday is in a couple weeks, should I reach out to her before that or should I wait till her birthday and give her a call? How should I go about handling this situation? Call, text, IM, email? Ladies what do you say?
2006-09-29 10:24:43 · 10 answers · asked by Young Chea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd wait for awhile. I'd email her on her birthday and that's it. Give her some space and much needed time. Let her contact you if she wants.
2006-09-29 10:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by ????? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go do it if you think she's THE ONE..but be careful not to start the mess all over again like if you think she's too stress out about her break up then leave her alone for a while..but if she and you have a possible chance of falling in love again then i think you really should make a move.Tell her how you feel and if she feels the same way..i think she'll tell you.Good Luck!!
P.S. Be careful not to go with things too far..if you feel that she's just messing with you then you should break up right away
2006-09-29 10:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by ♥HAL♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay uh call her about a week from now and make a plan to take her out for her birthday, somewhere she will like since its her day. Don't overdo it and take it slow, remember that you don't want to lose her again.
No pressure, no pressure just have fun and get to know her all over again.
Good Luck.
2006-09-29 10:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her how you feel and that you would like to give it another go and leave it her hands. If she wants to give it another go too, THEN do something romantic for her birthday. Or send her flowers and wait for her to respond to you.
I'm sure she told you she broke up with her ex and said she's sorry for everything because she wants you back too.
I think she definately wants you back and misses you. If she really is THE ONE, go for it and don't give up.
2006-09-29 10:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by Vickyandbump 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start by IM and take it slowly. Just chatting. Then I would call on her birthday and wish her a happy birthday. She would really appreciate that you remembered. You really want to take it slow. Start off by being her friend first then see where that leads you.
2006-09-29 10:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by stephgirl78 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to find out if the reason you havent heard from her is not because she is with her ex. Maybe shes back with him,If i were you i wouldnt get her anything until you know for sure shes not back with him. Then go from there. Dont rush into doing anything for her until you are sure.
2006-09-29 10:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to buy the women some flowers and walk up to her door and give them to her. Don't call or text that is very impersonal. Face to face is always best.
2006-09-29 10:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by Not Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her on her birthday if any boy did that to a girl its the best b-day present!
but it might stress her out some!
then she might be a b*tch watch out!
2006-09-29 10:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by taco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her now. Don't wait. She might still like you.
2006-09-29 10:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait til her birthday, that just sounds lame.
2006-09-29 10:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋