What if you found out a guy you were dating was a serious pack-rat and you were uncomfortable at his place.
Would it change your view or feelings for him?
2006-09-29 10:24:39 · 10 answers · asked by Patricia 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends if the I saw long term relationship potential...I would just let him know that i wasn't comfortable with it.. and we'd have to talk about it. And the result of conversation like whether
he takes offense and changes the topic...or openly talks about it would effect how i viewed his pack rat problem.
2006-09-29 10:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by Unwritten 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Me personally would get out of the relationship. Clutter is not my friend. Once a pack rat always a pack rat.
2006-09-29 17:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by to_sassy4_u 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell to the YEA!!!! Look first of all it aint like he gave u a ring or anything so right off top you already know it is nothing that serious. If your uncomfortable, GET OUT!!! If you stay your setting yourself up for failure and a lot of heartache. Want proof look at his past
2006-09-29 17:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by a1b2c3d4bj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what if hes a pack rat your just dating him, mose guys like a lot of junke the only problemm is, you women are pack rats too with the pursess you drag around it loks like a godam suit case!! felings you have no holdings on him yet-- you are just dating him not his apartment-- and dump half that crap you drag arond out of your puersess pack rats right!!
2006-09-29 17:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just found that you were uncomfortable at his place?
Different people have different ways of thinking and feeling and doing things, do what you will and what you think is right.
2006-09-29 17:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, im a naturally neat person, but i wouldn't change how i feel about the boy, there are more important thing in life than that. and i can always teach him how to clean.
then again, my mom has been trying to get my dad to clean up his messes since they got married...
2006-09-29 17:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have an Idea WHY DON"T YOU TELL HIM THIS BOTHERS YOU???!!! Maybe if he likes you enogh he'll change,would you like it if there was something about you he didn't like and he just dumped you without telling you why? You know we tend to get What we give in life!!!!
2006-09-29 17:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by boxer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reverse the sex's, i had a gf that was a packrat, but she could find anything that she wanted. so it was just a matter of having not enough room for all the stuff she loved. she was very bright and very organized...hope that helps.
2006-09-29 17:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you like the guy then get over it and live with it.
2006-09-29 17:27:51 · answer #9 · answered by is420legal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring a mouase trap
2006-09-29 17:27:14 · answer #10 · answered by HD1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋