im meeting this girl tonight at football game and i was wandering how i should go about talking to her and what to talk about and like..how do go in for the kiss..erm when? ladies what do like a guy to do in a huge crowd besides hanging out with you? thanks ppl!
2006-09-29 10:19:22 · 10 answers · asked by humanoidtyphoon1@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also i want to add...im on the shy side(alot) and tend to get nervous, so what would be a good ice breaker?
2006-09-29 10:23:39 · update #1
I have been on a lot of dates bro, and believe me, one thing girls don't like is extreme shyness or being an extremely self centered moron. When you first meet her, ask her about her day, stay on the side, ask short questions and make her do the talking. See if you can find a topic that she's passionate about, ask her about her interests. Do 0(zero) talking about yourself until she starts asking about you. Be on the calm, down to earth, and whn necessary confident side(but not cocky). make your answers straightforward, short and to the point. Don't go around and talking too much, saying things like "i mean" and crap like that. Whe speaking, don't look at her. But do look her exactly in the eye, with your best seductive look every now and then. When the ice breaks, and it eventually will, start speaking about a funny or a kind story. Admit to her that you're not perfect and that you have done some stupid crap before and say that it's life and you learn from your mistakes. It will show her that you have no inflated ego. About the kiss: Absolutely don't rush it or make it obvious that you want to kiss her. If you take her home or sit somewhere private and feel that she likes you and would let you kiss her then tell her, to her face, that you would like to kiss her. About the kiss itself, I can't help you there. ust don't bite or lick...lol. Finally, don't overextend the date and when you feel like it's getting late or it's about time, tell her to feel free to let you know when she would like to head back and that you'd completely understand. You may take or leave my advice, but whatever you do, don't laugh like a joker and don't be mute like a mummy. Don't interrupt her and let her do the talking, remember. Be a spy, sit back, relax and make her come to you and ask you questions. if she doesn't respond to you at all, then there is simply no chemistray in between. There will be another one, not the end of the world! The best of luck to you pal!
2006-09-29 10:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by Diplomat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cousin got married at your age. She's 19 now and she has already had her first baby. And let me tell you how much her and her parents regret it. The other day she came in to the lounge, her baby in her arms, vomit over flowing in its mouth and suffocating. She was panicking (didn't know what to do) and my uncle had to quickly grab the baby off her and help it to revive. Don't say that you won't have any kids cause you will be pressured. Many people who get married so young lose time on getting to know what they want and setting their priorities. You lose your youth and gain sooo much responsibility. You also run a very high risk of getting depressed and ending up in financial turmoil. It is not a GAME. Don't be so quick to think you've found the right person. Take your time. You'll know the answer in the future. Go and have fun. Edit: WoW!! I just ready your profile and Your doing radiology!! Congrats on that! If you want t o keep that going I suggest finishing your degree first and savng up some money!! That would be more wise. Don't be afraid to say no too, it's your life. Good luck
2016-03-26 23:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Ask her general questions like what she likes to do in her free time and what her interests are. Don't worry you will be fine. If it is going to be cold at the game, bring an extra sweatshirt and ask her if she would like to wear it, if she looks cold. If she seems to be flirting with you and you can pick up the signs, maybe go out for icecream after the game or starbucks (my sister seems to go there all the time after football games). If she says yes, you can try putting your arm around her while sitting next to her, or try and hold her hand. I do not believe in kissing in the first date, but if you feel the moment is right and she seems interested, go for it!
2006-09-29 10:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by ridingis4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as a girl i personally think you should be by yourself of you wanna make it special. Talk to her first about clothes, or stuff like that.Things you know she wants to talk about. Then move the conversation to her.Ask about her family, about her u know. then get to a nice topic about her, talk about it and then look her in the eyes, tell her something special and ask her for a kiss. If shes the type of girl that expects a kiss, go for it. but be sure in the point of conversation your talking about her. Good luck.
2006-09-29 10:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by starlette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
son, talk to her about anything that you see funny @ the game. make sure it's funny. listen to her well, because it would be a good starting point for a conversation to ask her things. kissing - only if the date has been well and don't look for it. we are all nerveous when it come to kissing. the most important part is that you have fun
2006-09-29 10:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be kind and considerate and suggest you go for a coffee or drink away from the crowd and then see how that goes. no-one wants to be jumped on the first date.
2006-09-29 10:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by Gill T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all leave the kissing to the end if she wont's one and while you are there hold hand and every once and while give her a warm hug just to no that you care. good luck
2006-09-29 10:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her lots of questions about herself, women like to talk about themselves, the kiss should come towards the end of the night
2006-09-29 10:25:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold my hand alot, be attentive to my thoughts and words and me, the same as u would want, except for the sex...
2006-09-29 10:23:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just enjoy the moment.
don't follow any plan .
just be yourself
when things are right you will know
RELAX she likes you
2006-09-29 10:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by the bad seed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋