is there any method that you use to build up confidence and courage to talk to a girl that you like but have never spoken to before? please don't say "just do it". i want to know if there is something u do that helps you.
2006-09-29 10:09:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a girl so I don't know how much this will help but be yourself don't think before you talk be true genuine don't pretend to be what you think we want because you guys always read us wrong...Just say Hi and go from there if shes interested shell say something back....the best confidence builder is trying it and having it work...
2006-09-29 10:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get smashed, the girl won't take you serious if she can tell that your drunk. Maybe have one to relax you. Before you do this you should do something for yourself that makes you feel good, like for me it's a new haircut, a new outfit, I'm sure it'd be different for you, but whatever it is that makes you feel awesome. Then remember, be you, what's the worst that could happen? At least you'll feel good about yourself that you tried. I wish that guys would approach me more often instead of shying away like I know most of them do.
2006-09-29 10:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
gown nicely, get your hair achieved think of constructive recommendations approximately your self. I continually discover if makes me sense constructive if i seem solid. I walk with my head held extreme. some days, whilst im feeling fat or my skins undesirable or in simple terms having a nasty day oftentimes, i think of constructive recommendations approximately myself (extra handy suggested than achieved in specific circumstances). If im having a fat day and that i hate my hips better than works can exhibit then i will think of ''i do have a stunning genuine a million/2'' which i do!!! In group circumstances you will desire to communicate! in case you are able to communicate you would be extra approachable and maximum critically smile :) solid success!
2016-10-15 08:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by wishon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime I've wanted to talk to someone I didn't know, I would usually just tell myself that if I don't tell them, I'll always wonder "what if?". Also, I tell myself that I don't see a reason why I can't, I'm just like everyone else, and if they're rude or whatever, that it's their loss! GOOD LUCK! Hope this helps!
2006-09-29 10:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by marypaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look around at all the other guys pining after her and remind yourself how much more handsome you are. Then stand up straight, smile, and say "hi, I'm (insert name here)". If you look confident you will be confident. :)
2006-09-29 10:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for this question first before asking it. It has been asked by several people including myself. look me up and see my question. The answers really did help, I have a date on tomorrow.
2006-09-29 10:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by kinreep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get absolutley smashed.
2006-09-29 10:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink a few cocktails first.
2006-09-29 10:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by jazzmetalbassist 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋