My boyfriend and I have ben dating for a month or so, and last night he tells me his felings (finaly!!) He tells me that when he see's me he get's these rolleroaster feelings in his stomach and he loves it. He also said that it's close to love but we havent quite reached there yet and tonight he's taking me to dinner and we're renting movies and tomorrow he's actually cooking dinner. I know I have my hands on a good guy and I dont want to lose him, BUT he is a flirt and it bothers me when he talks about how beautiful other girls are. I know he could do better than me but for some odd reason he wants me. Do you think I should believe what he says and go with the flow or wonder a little it if the flirting ever goes further than what it should. Please help me guys!! Thanks!
2006-09-29 10:07:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course not. He just wants to get in your pants.
2006-09-29 10:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt be with a man with a roaming eye. And I think its even worse if he is telling you about it. That will just make you feel insecure. I know everyone is guilty of looking at the opposite sex once in a while but if im in a relationship I dont run home to tell my bf. Actually I wouldnt even remember if I had seen someone nice looking or not. You see them say to yourself "nice!" and forget it. Poof gone. Does he tell you how beautiful you are? Id wait a bit more without saying anything and see how this guy is. If you speak to him about it too soon he may only change cuz you said something..id want to see what he is made of and if i didnt like it id get out before your in too deep. Girl bottom line watch him. I dont like the sounds of it so far. Good luck.
2006-09-29 17:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay normaly i say to girls who ask questions like this that if you have a feeling you should be worried then you probably should BUT reading your question I get the feeling that you have a few self confidence issues.
I think the relationship is still very new and it's way to early to give up trusting him. It is okay for people to flirt. Can you honestly say that you NEVER flirt? I think you should stop worrying about it and let things happen as they happen. Don't start worrying about tomorow when today is still so new and fresh!
ENJOY the new love feeling and realize that you are worth loving and caring about!
2006-09-29 17:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well
your guy seem to be a quite good guy
so no need to doubt what he says
as if every guy or girl
kept thinking whether their bf/gfs saying is true or not
no one will ever date
go with the winds
and in case he was just a flirt
one time he will make a mistake
and u will know
and u know no relation is totally pinky
so as it seems he is worth it
go for it
besides
what do u really mean buy he could do better than me
you have to believe in ur self more than that
everyone is good the way he/she is
2006-09-29 17:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by alexandre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will always look and flirt around with other girls but really u just have to see what he's about and if you hear any rumors from alot of people about bad things about him and u know its true first ask him and if he really likes u then he'll give a good answer and tell u the truth
2006-09-29 17:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by Elisia Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont believe you could be close to loving someone that much after only being with them for a month. its not cool about him giving other girls compliments in front of you even though he can say another girl is pretty, but what does that do to your self esteem? does he compliment you? sounds like a player to me. move along before you get in too deep and he ends up hurting you. what do you mean "you know he could do better than you"? think more highly of yourself. sounds like you need work on your self esteem
2006-09-29 17:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like it's going great. i wouldn't worry about the flirting right now. you are both technically single. if the appreciation he shows for OTHER beauty's is taking away from your glow than you have got to talk honestly about it.
get out there and do some harmless flirting yourself and maybe you'll start feeling like you ARE good enough.
2006-09-29 17:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by partybigmomma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's typical for the male species to flirt even when they are with someone. Don't be so bothered by it...overthinking the situation gets you more annoyed and angry. Enjoy what yo both have in the present.
2006-09-29 17:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by Amber K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too early to make the decisions. Go out with him, see how is he looking at the other girls, what is he doing, then make the decisions. Remember some guys want to be looking bad, but they are not. Don't judge for what he says, judge him fir what he does.
Good luck,
Svetlana
2006-09-29 17:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by Svetlana G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hear ya..my man is awesome and he could 50 times better than me..he always has girls flirting and asking him out an dasking him to dance and he always says no(when i am around)..but what abotu when i am not....i have your exact issue..thank you asking it..but the other thing is..i love him and with him...you have trust him or the relationship is for nothing..so i am trying...give it a try
2006-09-29 17:11:05 · answer #10 · answered by Liz M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LIsten and trust him. If you keep questioning it, he might one day go for those other girls. Just have enough confidence in yourself and give him some credit.
2006-09-29 17:09:06 · answer #11 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋