im dating a guy that lives in texas and i live in kasas....i see him about once a week and we have a great relationship and it would be alot better if we were closer...we have been dating a few months he wants to get married and start a family and im all for that. the only think keeping me here is my family my mom and 6 younger brothers and sisters...my mom thinks that its me that cant live with out her and she is the one that cant live without me and forbids me from going and its a fight between us now because i said that i need to live my own life then she told me if i go that i wont ever be able to see my two younger brothers again and one is 6 years old and the other is 3 monthss old and they are a big part of my life....i know she really doesnt mean that...i hope anyways...i just dont know what to do..how can she expect me to give up what could be a great thing in my life cuz she is selfish...
2006-09-29 10:03:42 · 7 answers · asked by playboy_princess_n_kansas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NEVER move for a man...only move if you will have a life and opportunites that don't involve him in Texas
2006-09-29 10:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by krpsky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's funny ur story sounds like mean. But it took for my parents was my mom to move out to another province. Now she realize ya I need to be able to live on my own away from her and my dad. But I don't think that's going to happen with u. Maybe all your mom needs is to meet the guy ur with.
2006-09-29 10:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by Adam K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never move for anyone else, especially a man. You need to do what feel right for you and what is best for you. Have you found a job yet? Have you spent more then 24hrs together at once?
Good Luck.
2006-09-29 10:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by Becki B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're over 18, she has nothing to say about you moving.
Trying to throw that guilt trip on you is wrong, but she would probably settle down once you moved. You can go back to Kansas to visit.
2006-09-29 10:07:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move from Kansas to Texas regardless. People, excitement, thriving economy, opportunity!
2006-09-29 10:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by hi surfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DONT THINK YOU SHOULD MOVE TO TEXAS CAUSE YOUR FAMILY IS MORE THAN ONE PERSON BUT YOUR BOYFRIEND IS ONLY ONE PERSON YOU COULD BE HURTING YOUR FAMILY VERY BADLY!! WHY DOESNT HE COME TO KANSAS INSTEAD OF YOU GOING TO TEXAS!!!
2006-09-29 10:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's true love, you should always make the move.
2006-09-29 10:07:23 · answer #7 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋